At 28 i've never had a girlfriend...no matter how hard I try....so it assumes some guys never do..(proberly not enough women in the world)......So i don't want to end up in a old peoples home wondering what it would feel like to have been in 'love/....have...sex...and a girlfriend expirence...
I've seen a lot of adverts for 'escort girls'...these are ordinary women who have jobs..some are students, and range in age from 20 to 29...they charge anything from £100 to £200 a hour....
I've seen one nice girl who charges £250 for 3 hours
what are your opinions........Please be honest...Its becoming very hard to stay 'pure' now....
2006-09-11 10:05:20 · 30 answers · asked by ? 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
THINK!
YOU ARE WORTH MORE THAN HAVING TO PAY FOR A RELATIONSHIP
Have confidence in yourself, if this shows then people will be attracted to you. You may not be looking in the right area.
2006-09-11 10:16:33 · answer #1 · answered by lexi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you think getting an escort will solve your problems, then go for it. However, if you never had a girlfriend before, chances are, you might fall in love with her and end up with a broken heart.
Women escort are not into their clients, they do it purely for the money. It's a professional code that they hold near and dear. Money can't buy love and if you have to pay for it, they it's just sex.
If you want to practice having sex so that you don't look like a virgin, then escort is for you. They will teach you things and soon you will be confidence to show 'your girlfriend' your love skills.
I wish you best of luck. And wear condom, who knows what you might give her. Remember to respect them to, there human that been through more sh*t than you can imagine.
2006-09-11 10:14:12 · answer #2 · answered by Inquisit 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it´s a bad idea. If you wait long enough, you will find the right girl. You sound like you want an emotional connection as well and escort girls are purely there to satisfy your physical needs. It can actually leave you feeling like shi* afterwards. Save your money for something more important. Only guys who are really desperate use escort girls, and in today´s society, being a virgin is very respectable, especially if you´re a male. Don´t be ashamed. You are unique, and you have everything to be proud of.
2006-09-11 11:31:03 · answer #3 · answered by Green-Eyed Gal 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Escort girls are alright as long as they are clean and you take precautions but it is a living for them not a date or love you will only be a client maybe 6th plus that day.
Try to join a club or speed dating evening or spend your money by enrolling in a dating agency.
There a also a lot of women who have never meet the right person yet. Take a long look at yourself in a mirror and at your clothes and see what could be changed to give yourself a makeover if you change something about yourself it will give you confidence. Good Luck
2006-09-11 10:40:53 · answer #4 · answered by AndyPandy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To pay a girl all that money for 3 hours to date you will do nothing for your self esteem at all. She will pretend to like you as she sees the £ signs flashing before her eyes. I don't blame you for thinking about it but you need to think why have you never had a girlfriend? Is it a confidence thing? I reckon you have loads of good qualities, maybe you just need to work on the weaker ones. What about your image and self-image? I reckon you'd be better off joining a dating agency but firstly think hard about what might be putting women off you. Maybe you are trying too hard? Whatever it is I wish you good luck. Besides I know you may think 28 is old but it's not and you will find your dream girl some day I'm sure.
2006-09-11 10:22:52 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
MY other half in the states was an Escort, nothing wrong with it in essence but to her it was just a job and to her friends occasionally a client would fall in love but then they got lost as we changed pager numbers etc. To most Girls this is a job, they never or very rarely fall for the customers and the customer does not get the full reward of a Girlfriend Experience, don't worry pal things will sort themselves out you will meet someone don't worry
2006-09-11 10:54:31 · answer #6 · answered by decrepid1958 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My honest opinion is that 'Escorts' provide a service and if no one is being hurt then there is no harm in using them.
However I think it would be a shame if you paid for your first time! Have you tried dating web sites or putting an ad in the one to one column of your local paper. There are lots of people out there looking for love and there is no reason at all to suppose that you will never have a girlfriend.
And a word of caution. This is a true story:- A friend, in very similar circumstances to yours saved up £300 for a couple of hours with a very attractive 'Escort'. It took him a while to save and he was really looking forward to it! When it came to the crunch he couldn't perform and she ended up reading to him out of the Harry Potter book she was currently reading - and he didn't get a refund!!
2006-09-11 10:15:23 · answer #7 · answered by libbyft 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you feel seeing an escort will boost you confidence and be a worthwhile experience, then go ahead. But, very few people never have a sexual relationship in there lifetime, and at 28 you are far from past it! You may find that once you have had one experience the rest will follow more naturally.
2006-09-11 10:16:14 · answer #8 · answered by Emelia F 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok here's honest, i dont believe you can't get laid for nothing by picking up a girl in a pub or something. paying for an escort may get you laid for a price but you would still be sat in the old peoples home not knowing what love or having a girlfriend feels like because escorts don't do love just sex.
2006-09-11 10:16:45 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're going to 250 quid to get a girl to 'act' for you, I'd suggest you get one from acting school and pay half that price.
These budding actresses really need the money more, so you'll actually be helping someone whilst solving your own problem.
Escort girls might look good etc, but people always have the impression that they are tied to the sex industry. So get a real actor or actress instead.
2006-09-11 10:13:10 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Escort girls come and go.If you are looking for a relationship,try going to church,or meeting a girlfriend by dating.Escort girls don't stick around,they are there for the money.They don't care about the person,just what they have in their bank account.Be careful and watch out for diseases,too.They all say they are tested,but i doubt that as they sleep with men hour to hour.How can they be tested from one man to the next.Oh,they will act how you want and be whatever you want but then they are gone.
2006-09-11 10:12:00 · answer #11 · answered by countrykarebare 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋