My brothers wife is cheating on him with his boss. They are swingers (extramarital sex with others) and that is how his boss and his wife met. Now she's spending a lot of intimate time with my brothers boss while he's at work, with the kids, or doing other stuff. My brother has a though, but doesn't want to get fired, but his boss is doing his wife. What should I do? I want to punch her lights out and tell my brother what's going on, but I don't want to hurt his two kids. What should I do?
2006-09-11 10:04:03 · 20 answers · asked by TexasLSUTiger 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Tell your brother immediately and then stay out of it. This is something your brother must handle. This is the problem of being swingers and it happens all the time.
It is mostly your brother's fault for living that lifestyle.
Tell him what you know because he is family and then let him deal with it how he wants to.
And learn from the lesson and don't have a swinger for a wife. It's very stupid.
2006-09-11 10:07:53 · answer #1 · answered by Trevor B 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dude, he's your brother for gods sake. You must tell him at all costs. However, be sure to have some way to back up your claims, he'll be in denial unless you have proof. Arrange for him to catch them in the act. Also, be prepared for the possibility that he is cool with it, if they are swingers, they may also have an open marriage, it does happen. Don't judge him, just give him the facts.
2006-09-11 17:32:22 · answer #2 · answered by javelin 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
All you can do is leave it be. There's no need to get into this situation, no matter how tempting it may be. Eventually the waters will come clear and your brother will see the truth. Your brother should talk to his wife more often about what she does during the day-maybe she's cheating on him because she felt neglected for some weird reason?
Good luck.
2006-09-11 17:37:31 · answer #3 · answered by sweetdollツ 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
that is the problem with couples who swing there is always a chance they are going to meet some and have feelings for that person. i think that the couples know the risks and go for it anyways. and the ones that have not thought of the consequences of this kind of behavior are at a lose. im very sorry...for what is happening in your brothers family it sounds like a no win situation...
2006-09-11 17:09:38 · answer #4 · answered by moe 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well first you need a family of your own so you can mind your business. second your brother need to punch her lights out. You didn't' marry her, he did. Its not your family, it's his fam. Your brother knows whats going on and let him be. Your constant nagging is no help to him. Find your own B*tch. He is a grown man and he knows what he is doing. They don't need you in their marriage to tell them how to run their bed room. O>K
2006-09-11 17:13:18 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell the bosses wife!!!
2006-09-11 17:17:11 · answer #6 · answered by Hydee 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry you're in a horrible position. I'd want to kick her a** too. I know you want to tell your brother but stay out of it. He will find out on his own, if he doesn't know already.
Or you can find a way for your brother to find out without him knowing it was you. Marinate on it.
2006-09-11 17:09:00 · answer #7 · answered by jordan_30241 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You should tell your brother. Its only fair that he knows about it. You're gunna have to take some action before the incident becomes bigger.
2006-09-11 17:07:15 · answer #8 · answered by sellatieeat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to tell your brother and get some sort of proof because without proof, some people, even family, still wont believe you.
I told my sister when i saw her hubby riding in HER car with his mistress and she didnt believe me. I just wished I had had pictures to show her.
2006-09-11 17:08:37 · answer #9 · answered by Phenomenal_Black_Woman 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
not trying to be mean but let your brother fight his own battles. it shows that you love him alot because you to help. The only thing you should do to help is ask God to bless your brother or help him out. BEST OF LUCK!!!
2006-09-11 17:08:28 · answer #10 · answered by ♥la chica♥ 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋