and now I think I got her pregnant. Also, I think I got another girl pregnant a month ago. Overall, I don't like the girl I may have just gotten pregnant - she was just a fling, but I really do love the girl I got pregnant a month ago - she's by sisters best friend and I really love her. What should I do? Ask #1 to get an abortion and let #2 have my child? Or should I just let them both have the children. I'm 19 and truely confused. Help please.
2006-09-11 10:01:27 · 13 answers · asked by TexasLSUTiger 3 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
you dont get rid of a child because they interfere with your happiness you explain the situation and support both children if they are yours and tell the person you love that you love her and explain the situation lies will only make things worse
2006-09-11 10:07:49 · answer #1 · answered by Jenna 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wow...have you heard of abstinence and waiting till marriage to have kids? Regardless, you don't really have a say in what these girls plan to do about their pregnancies. If you love the first girl you got pregnant then be with her and be there for her and the baby. Talk to this other girl and tell her that it was just a fling and that you have no intentions of being with her, but if she has the baby you will be there for the child (at least I hope you would be man enough to be there for your own child).
2006-09-11 10:04:51 · answer #2 · answered by Rawrrrr 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to start by high-tailing your sorry @ss down to the local clinic and get tested for STDs. And you can't LET them have the children. If these women are, in fact, pregnant, you need to sit down with both of them separately and discuss your options. (Personally, I believe the ONLY option is carrying the baby to term and either keeping the baby or giving him/her up for adoption, but unfortunately not everyone agrees with me.)
One more question--how could you "truly love" this girl if you cheated on her with a fling? I think you really are confused. A word of advice--grow the hell up before you decide to have sex again. Sex is for mature, responsible adults in a loving, monogamous relationship. Obviously you are none of the above.
2006-09-11 15:51:45 · answer #3 · answered by brevejunkie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should stop having sex if your not prepared to take responsibility for the off-spring.
Would the girl you supposedly love really want to be with you and have your baby even if some other girl in the same time frame is also having your child.
No self-respecting woman would... but congratulations anyway on both kids. Good luck with that.
2006-09-11 10:06:24 · answer #4 · answered by princessin_bluejeans 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh boy, if you were this confused when you had sex this would have never happened. Children are always a blessing and just put yourself in your daddy's shoes had this been his situation. To think about what to do about you? Not good huh? Well all embryos deserve a chance. Don't go to coulda, woulda, shoulda land. Good luck and God bless and Ilumine you.
2006-09-11 10:05:35 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you should ask her to get an abortion, that might offend her. Maybe you should tell her to think about her options such as Adoption,Keeping it, or Abortion, that would probably be a nicer way. And maybe she'll choose abortion but who knows, a lot of people are against that.
2006-09-11 10:06:45 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
good luck ask #1 the u dont love to get an abortion and let #2 have ur baby cuz u love her ;) play it safe next time
2006-09-11 10:06:10 · answer #7 · answered by abe i 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're not doing anyone a favor by being a father. Join a missionary and become a monk and let the grownups deal with these issues.
2006-09-11 10:05:06 · answer #8 · answered by $Sun King$ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Looks likes ur gonna be a father of two. Abortion is not in my dictionary
2006-09-11 10:08:26 · answer #9 · answered by **What??** 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to stop having sex if you are not going to use protection. If these girls are pregnant, it is their choice on whether or not they will keep these children.
2006-09-11 10:20:27 · answer #10 · answered by corey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋