ok so i am dating this guy and like his ex keeps telling ppl that he is asking her out and that he tells her he loves her and all that stuff and like yea. well like i go ask my bf and he says no that none of this is true that he only loves me. well like should i believe him or his ex..........by the way his ex is also my ex best friend.
2006-09-11 09:42:44 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'd say like follow you heart and like try and like believe him ,and like he like might be like tellin the like truth
2006-09-11 09:49:44 · answer #1 · answered by elizabeth_davis28 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you trust this guy, you should just laugh her off and say to people "Isn't it sad that she has to act that way. You can see how psycho she is and why he left her" or some such.
You need to be objective about this though. There are guys who will play both sides of the fence this way. I have seen it more than once.
You are the only one who can determine the truth. If this girl is your ex best friend, think about what you know of her. Is she psycho? Would she lie out of pain or to get what she wants (i.e. you 2 broken up)? Do you know her for a lot longer than him? What do you know about him? If he is your ex best friend's bf, how did he treat her? Did he break up with her respectfully?
It is hard when all these emotions are involved, but you need to look at the facts - what you know about these people and how they have treated others in the past.
Peace!
2006-09-11 16:57:40 · answer #2 · answered by carole 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jazmyne:
Always watch your back, women outnumber men 10 to 1 by statistics. Do you trust him? Can you trust your ex friends advice? Is the ex telling the rumors or is he? Some jilted women often make it hard on their ex boyfriends and glad to be rid of them, but out of spite, they don't want them and neither do they want someone else to have him. Many times after a relationship is ended, the fallen pieces have to be put back together and remended-although the heart is shattered-eventually you get over it. A relationship can get into jeopardy quickly by one mate or the other. Many relationships will falter due to the lack of interests in either party. In this case I would simply say, sit back, relax, and see what comes next, but be on your toes.....
2006-09-11 16:55:58 · answer #3 · answered by tombowling49 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK, deal with it. Tell him no seeing his ex! If he doesn't you're going to start seeing this tall, dark, romantic, Englishman that you met on the Internet! So he has to get a grip or else. It will be partly true I am 6ft 2" tall and dark and single and you can get my email address of my web site! lol
That has to be a top answer! Only another 4700 and I'll be on level 5! lol Smart too.. lol
2006-09-11 16:53:49 · answer #4 · answered by Mike10613 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
chances are she is telling the truth come on if you were telling your ex these things and your current asked you'd lie no one wants to be rejected by their ex and then their current dump them because they found out.
2006-09-11 16:46:21 · answer #5 · answered by jo_jo_baby2004 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jerry Springer stuff!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-09-11 16:46:36 · answer #6 · answered by mustanglady 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go play with your barbies
2006-09-11 16:45:13 · answer #7 · answered by patrick b 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋