ive been with my b/f for a yr and we broke up on good terms but now that ive been talkin to another guy he wants me back he is willin to do things like get me a promise ring and move here but the other guy ive been talkin to is already down here and he really wants to be with me i have feelings for both of them. the one thats here wants to make a committment and wants me to move in with him and possibly marriage but my bf isnt ready for that yet but he did say that next yr we could talk about getting an apt together what should i do
2006-09-11 09:36:47 · 11 answers · asked by Christina E 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
This is not a casual question, because you're talking about commitment and living together. The fact that you can't decide between the two proves that you are NOT ready for that kind of commitment. Back off, slow down, don't be in such a hurry. You have two attractive guys after you, so take your time and enjoy that awhile. Explain to each that you're not ready for a commitment and that you will be dating another person for awhile, and that they should also feel free to date others too, because it wouldn't be fair otherwise.
2006-09-11 09:45:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You're not in love with 2
You're in doubt
Break up with both of them and discover yourself. What do you like? What hobbies? Books? Poems? Passion? Do you paint? sing? act? Who are you?
Then decide which one - the decision will be easy.
FP
2006-09-11 09:43:54 · answer #2 · answered by F. Perdurabo 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
leave your bf you two broke up for a reason right and he not going to change and try the new guy and he willing to do everythings your way so forget about your bf
2006-09-11 09:42:57 · answer #3 · answered by maya 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make a decision, then let the other poor fellow get on with his life.
2006-09-11 09:43:12 · answer #4 · answered by Red 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is always hard to tell who is better. Picture this, if you are alone, without anyone of the two. Whom do you miss the most? That is the one!
2006-09-11 09:44:27 · answer #5 · answered by Zooya 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you are in love woth 2 go with the one that you are in love the most
2006-09-11 09:42:15 · answer #6 · answered by athina 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am with the 1st answer date both
2006-09-11 09:41:36 · answer #7 · answered by djbaum94@sbcglobal.net 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you find out? Can you let me know?
2006-09-11 09:40:10 · answer #8 · answered by misty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
who do you love? And would you regret your decision?
2006-09-11 09:41:30 · answer #9 · answered by Varacha 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
date both...
2006-09-11 09:38:36 · answer #10 · answered by Forlorn Hope 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋