I have recently re-meet a girl I use to go to school with, & each time I bumped into she would always try & kiss me, the only problem was I was in a relationship @ that time. I recently spilt up with my ex & she quickly discovered this & we went out on what she considered a date but I never. One thing lead to another & during that "date" she tried to kiss throughout the night & each time I backed off. I told her that whilst we both like each other like that its all happened a bit too quickly. Since then she has poiletly declined my invites to meet up again (3 times) but has continued to send over 50 emails to me @ work last week as well as texts inpartcular late of Fri & Sat night, as if she is checking up on me. I am now ready to move onto the next stage with her but with the rejection since that "date" & the fact that I gave out signals to her that I dont really like her like that, shall I just move on & just be friends with her?
2006-09-11 09:36:29 · 8 answers · asked by michaelbcfc 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
U must try to understand her.She has been preparing to kiss u and u have rejected her.Now she has to face up with her broken ego...She rejected ur invitations just for u to feel how its like to be in her shoes...Try to be more innovative...Send her flowers, write her poem...She'll fall for that...I wish u good luck
2006-09-11 09:44:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are considering dating this girl then tell her you would like to go out again sometime and leave it up to her when you will go out. Just make sure she allows you enough time to accommodate her desire to go out with you (as in don't let her call you up five minutes before she wants to do something).
If you don't want to date this girl, which I instinctively advise, don't initiate contact anymore and only answer questions, preferably with the shortest answer possible.
This girl is probably just jerking you around becaue she feels you snubbed her and now she is trying to exact revenge by refusing your advances but reminding you that you missed out on her by sending you all the emails. It is an unhealthy game for you both.
2006-09-11 10:06:29 · answer #2 · answered by randyken 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it shouldnt be too stressful. basically persist with difficulty rather everyone apreciates. song, the latest action picture, how stupid college is. the worst element u can do is say some thing actual detrimental approximately somebody, reason this might become her buddy or maybe a cousin. Dont say u hate Jordon Sparks reason she might like her. Watch the jokes, no longer something grimy or racial. it rather is going to purely ask your self her and make embarrased. I heard of people who went on a conventional date and the guy didnt comprehend what to assert so he advised a shaggy dog tale a chum had advised his that morning. it replaced into racist, yet he wasnt a racist guy. anyhow she ended up embarrased and so did he and it replaced into awkward silence from then on out.
2016-11-07 03:05:49 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think u should try to make her understand that this was a misunderstanding and that u like her more than u showed her...!!!
Good Luck...=0)
2006-09-11 09:41:05 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well man you should tell her you have feelings for hwer and you should go ahead and try to send flowers to her and tell her youll be at a cofee shop or a place she likes and then start from there and kiss her man
2006-09-11 09:40:56 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just move on.. she sounds like DRAMMMMMMA! Too much drama!!!!!!! Do you really want that in your life? I promise when she becomes your girlfriend, things'll only get WORSE!
2006-09-11 09:39:02 · answer #6 · answered by T S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No one cares about your problems in relationships. Thanks for the 2 points
2006-09-11 09:39:25 · answer #7 · answered by Druggie 101 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her soon and don't break her hurt
2006-09-11 09:45:19 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋