we were together sexually for the first time last night.we were going to save that for our weding night but i wanted to know him in the bedroom first.we are getting maried next weakend, but i really can't deal with his tiny penis.I was really disapointed in his performance and I could barley feel him inside of me and then after three thrusts he ejaculated.what should i do?
2006-09-11 09:14:22 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA!!
Sorry I just couldn't help but to laugh out loud. I'm sorry to hear that...but perhaps you can teach him to use his tonge and maybe pick up some toys? Remeber, there is more in a relationship than sex.
Altho sex is very important.
2006-09-11 09:18:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 2⤋
Pinky Penis
2016-10-21 05:11:22 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I guess you know for certain how things could be sexually between you both. Some people like to save it for the marriage. If one thinks about it, is it really a good idea? Don't get me wrong, I respect someone's morals like the next person. However, when you marry virgin you run the risk of marrying a bad lay and vice versa. The first time is always going to be lacking. You are at first getting used to each other's bodies and what turns the other one on.
If you really love this guy, then you need to get him to be more attentative to your sexual turn-ons. He needs to work on foreplay and technique. His penis size is something that can't be fixed unless you bring surgery in the mix. If you still fin him sexually repulsive and unsatisfying, you may have to decide whether you want to continue a relationship with him.
2006-09-11 09:25:31 · answer #3 · answered by davester1970 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋
OK, it was the first time, maybe you just got him too excited and since you are engaged I'll believe that he been celibate and that contributes. It is what god gave him and therefore, he can learn to be a fantastic lover regardless. It's about intimacy and connecting on a sexual level not just the size of the boat! Invest your time in schooling him and think of the positives.........you will never choke during oral fun, which is a one up for you, and you can do it in any position you want without any discomfort!
2006-09-11 09:27:12 · answer #4 · answered by btdt65 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
If this is true, I am so sorry. It is a terrible predicament. Sex is not the only part of a healthy adult relationship but it is an important and integral aspect. However if you truly love him, then you will have to live with his small penis and bad sex (which could improve with time and practice). My advice to you is buy a good vibrator and make sure he uses his tongue and hands often to pleasure you, when his penis can't stand up to the tasks. And practice makes perfect. Good luck. I truly hope things improve and work out for the best.
Best Wishes and good luck to both of you.
2006-09-11 09:35:34 · answer #5 · answered by CuriousGirl 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Well if you truley love him, which you must because you are going to marry him, then you should be able to get past his size. There are ways around it I mean I was the first time you were with him, so I am sure it will be better later on and if all else fails buy some toys!
Good luck with all!
2006-09-12 02:51:27 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
ok guys it does not matter the size it will grow just a late bloomer i was ****.to all u dumbass girls u live a guy just because of his penis well i feel sorry for u maybe that why u all have **** boyfriends.if u love this guy stay.ifyou dont then leave.sit down talk to him about it and he will understand might be mad not sure depends on how he is.and this forum is 8 years old and i dont give a *** just want to put my opinion out there
2014-03-04 23:23:46 · answer #7 · answered by Jamie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't care about it. It is really immature to worry and care about the size of someone's penis. At least he had done it, right? At least he was willing to try. So just forget the size of his penis, it may get bigger in time.
2006-09-11 09:18:19 · answer #8 · answered by voice_of_reason 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You must choose between your two contradictory statements. EITHER you are getting married next weekend OR you can't deal with his penis size. Both cannot be true, because you can't marry him if you can't deal with it. You must either figure out how to deal with it or tell him you are not going to marry him. One or the other, not both.
2006-09-11 09:19:43 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Dump him. I know it may seem harsh, but a small penis is not something to be over looked.
2006-09-11 09:27:09 · answer #10 · answered by S&M 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋