okay hay i kinda got a little crush on this tenth grader it feels kinda weird because im in 11th grade and i feel kinda bad about that i dont know im so lost help me out...
2006-09-11 09:11:52 · 29 answers · asked by mk 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
As you get older the age gap becomes less and less questionable. In high school a grade difference can be night and day in terms of maturity level and when i was at that age i didnt date guys in my grade, i of course dated older. If you like him then go for it. U shouldnt be restricted on who you like because of their age, but who they are as a person. So if you like them, why not. What do you have to lose?
2006-09-11 09:17:55 · answer #1 · answered by dlite1 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
that is all context:............ a sixteen year previous courting a 26 year previous is going to boost eyebrows. a 26 year previous courting a 36 year previous remains going to look atypical. a 30 year previous courting a 40 year previous is probable a splash greater proper. I understand WHY a woman ought to date an older guy nevertheless. It has a tendency to be that adult males do not mature as early as ladies do, so an older guy has fairly some charm. He is accustomed to a minimum of something with regard to the way the international works, knows women persons, and is many times going to be a greater exciting, nicely rounded guy than a infant sparkling out of highschool who thinks he's accustomed to each little thing, and acts great cocky via fact of that. The youthful guy is many times not in hassle-free terms much less exciting, yet he's carefully blind to that actuality. it is not merely adult males. i've got observed that maximum young women (say early 20s) are uninteresting... they only have not prolonged their horizons sufficient yet, to have the skill to hold a solid exciting verbal replace. particular, they're attractive, yet that's not probable the stuff that a solid courting is produced from. of direction all that creates a dynamic the place the older individual interior the courting is probable merely going to apply the greater youthful one as a "toy," in an attempt to speak. somebody to have exciting with for a whilst, till they're bored, and then they circulate on. Now, now and returned, you will locate something diverse, via fact no 2 human beings, and subsequently, no 2 relationships, are alike. and that i don't pick to diminish value the possibility of greater. i'm in hassle-free terms generalizing. of direction, in case you pick to look at why human beings ask your self approximately this form of courting, it quite is precisely the attitude you should take. via fact, they too, are in hassle-free terms generalizing...
2016-10-14 21:34:31 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no it's natural. If you had a crush on a 4th grader I'd be a little concerned at this time in your life. When you're much older and you have a crush on someone reasonably younger but you're both adults who cares.
2006-09-11 09:14:32 · answer #3 · answered by oldmomma 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just because you are dating someone a year younger or grade below you in HS doesn't make you a cradle robber. Since you are within the same age group it is OK. Now if you are scouting the middle schools or elementary schools for boys, then you are asking for it.
2006-09-11 09:16:32 · answer #4 · answered by davester1970 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I feel that it ia ok beacuse age is just a number and its all about how your hearts feels. If the parent don't have a problem with it than why not love comes from all shape, sizes and kind of thing so i feel that it would be ok because its the heart that matters.
2006-09-11 09:16:07 · answer #5 · answered by shawnte_hampton2001 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. It's only one year difference, and that's just high school years. I'm sure the actual age difference isnt that much. Don't let stupid little things get in the way.
2006-09-11 09:16:02 · answer #6 · answered by laker_girl85 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1 grade level is nothing. My husband is 2 1/2 years older than me!
2006-09-11 09:13:55 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think about it this way... after highschool does a 1-2 year difference make that much of a difference? Go for it...
2006-09-11 09:15:18 · answer #8 · answered by Reaction 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So? Someone has to like someone younger, if you are the younger one and you like the someone older, in terms of what you are saying, is it okay for someone to date you, I wouldn't mind dating someone who is younger than me, just as long as person isn't too young or too old. too young for me is 5 years difference and too old is also 5 years difference.
2006-09-11 09:28:08 · answer #9 · answered by Symbolic User 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah its o.k. it seems like such a bigger span when you are in high school. Most of the guys I have like are at least a year younger than I am.
2006-09-11 09:15:20 · answer #10 · answered by joeman_hulke 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋