and i think he likes me but i dont really even no him but every time i see him im happy then when he lives i cry wtf i never even talked to him and i really want to be with him and im to shy to say hi so should i walk up to him and kiss him or what should i do helpppp!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-09-11 09:08:20 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No that's not love! Its just an attraction. But love get develop between you two, only if you give yourself a chance! I believe if you really wanna be with him, you should muster your strength and go talk to him. At least become try to become his friend to know really what kind f person he is. But you shouldn't waste too much time mustering courage or, if not already, someone else might come in his life before you. Shy people never gets what they want. Probably the guy too is interested in you but he is waiting for some kind of step from you. But if you remain shy in your corner, he may get the impression that you are not interested in him, and might go for someone else! So give yourself a chance to get him and go ahead. Look for a way to befriend with him. One important thing, just before the moment you decide to talk to him, take a deep long breath. It helps :)
Good Luck
2006-09-11 09:25:24 · answer #1 · answered by Goldenheart 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you need to get to know him before you can ask if you love him. If you want to talk to him do it only you can decide what is right because if he doesnt want to know you then you only have yourself to blame and if he is interested then you need to show him who you are because if he is all that then someone else will have the courage that you dont and you will lose out good luck
2006-09-11 09:18:40 · answer #2 · answered by kylus 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are building such a big fantasy about a guy you don't even know that you are going to be disappointed by the real person. he's just a human being like you. try to make friends first and see if you really do like him.
2006-09-11 09:26:09 · answer #3 · answered by minerva 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not sure if you love whim but it seems that you love the idea of being with him. There is a big difference. Sometimes the fantasy is better than the reality.
2006-09-11 09:11:47 · answer #4 · answered by Timmi007 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Steady There, I thought you loved him but then you say you don.t know him? I am confused. Take life a day at a time don't do all the running.
kind regards Dirky
2006-09-11 09:21:02 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
TALK to him girl! Maybe you will actually not like him...maybe u will. Sounds like you are into him without knowing him. So....there is only one way to find out!
2006-09-11 09:41:27 · answer #6 · answered by AmericanWoman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl you are in love and being in love is a wonderful experience.
2006-09-11 09:16:57 · answer #7 · answered by olayinka o 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go for it girl just go up to him say hi my name is .... whats your name and see what happens i mean what have u got to lose
2006-09-11 09:12:25 · answer #8 · answered by j_squires2001 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him how you feel,
it cant hurt. besides he doesnt know you so he cant tell anyone about what you did. if of course the "telling him how you feel" doesnt work.
2006-09-11 09:12:23 · answer #9 · answered by Shawn T 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
kiss him it will be all good after that.
2006-09-11 09:14:02 · answer #10 · answered by Chris T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋