What happens if you never meet your soulmate? Do we die feeling lonely?

Answer 1

Hi ... and how's by you?
Regarding your question: What might be worse is thinking that maybe you did meet 'em but you let 'em slip by.

Answer 2

Depends on how you define Soulmate. Most people are quite happy to call their current partner a soulmate. Someone who temporarily gives you affection isn't a soulmate.

I define a soulmate as a person with whom you have an unbreakable connection with. No matter how intense the challenges are, your relationship will not be affected. A person who gives and takes unconditionally without keeping tabs on what they've done for their partner. A true soulmate is someone with whom you can share everything without fear of the consequences.

Given this definition of soulmate, I wander how many people have found theirs? I don't expect to find mine. Our souls are immortal. If this soul doesn't find its mate in this life, then may be the next. When we die, our bodies cease to exhist, but our souls (according to popular belief) continue on their journey to where ever they need to go. So while we as physical beings may die lonely, our souls won't! Lonliness is just a word to define the sadness felt when one is detached from something or someone. Detachment from things that are temporary is a good thing though. Why feel such intense attachment to something that may not be here tomorrow?

Answer 3

My soul mate is a guy that I pranked one night when I was drunk. He was a total stranger. He lives far away from me, but we started talking on the phone, like, all of the time. Then it cooled off a little. Anyway, I don't know if you will die lonely. But I do know that when I met him, I realized that he was my soulmate withtin 48 hours. And I changed. Things that had bothered me for years suddenly had no meaning. I became 500% happier and started to love myself. And It felt as if I had been waiting for him all my life and I just didn't know it. I don't know if we will end up together, but I will always be so grateful for meeting him.
I guess I would say yes. In a way, you will die lonely without a soulmate.
I hope you find yours.

Answer 4

I honestly believe that everyone has a soulmate - in a relationship and friendship. I also believe that people can have more than one soulmate. For example my husband is by far my soulmate however I have a friend who has been a great friend for 20 years - and she is also my soulmate.

But I think the only way you would die lonely is if you don't open up your heart and let yourself find your soulmate.

Answer 5

There's no such thing as a soul mate. You can't presume that you'll meet someone who you gel with perfectly and it stays perfect forever. That's unreasonable and probably the reason so many rushed into marriages fail. I think you meet someone you like and then fall in love with and eventually they become your best mate rather than your soul mate. But it takes a lot of bloody hard work to keep a relationship on track for a long time and not just a good time and it's certainly not all hearts and flowers.

Answer 6

No. I don't believe that each of us has a "soulmate" or anything like that. I'm in my 30's with no prospects, but I'm not "lonely". There is a big difference between lonely and alone. Besides, I have friends and family to spend time with.

Answer 7

It all depends on how you feel. I don't believe in soulmates. I think it's just two people who come together and decide that they want to be together for a very long time. Sometimes they break apart and find another person. Sometimes one will die and the other will die later.

Answer 8

Not everyone HAS a soulmate. But that doesn't mean you die lonely. You just have many mates in general.

Answer 9

It's like waiting at a bus terminal, all by yourself, at a place way out in the sticks. Waiting for hours in the hot sun. Then at some point you go into the station to pee. While you're in the restroom, you hear the bus coming down the road. The bus driver, not seeing anyone there to pick up, just keeps on going. When you come out of the station, all you see is a cloud of dust moving away down the dirt road. You're not sure that it was THE bus that was supposed to stop. You wait more. Eventually, you die of old age. You finally figure out that the bus that went by while you were in the restroom was the bus you should have been ready for. The end.

Answer 10

You could be in a relationship and still feel lonely. Most people are actually not with their soulmate...but don't know it

Answer 11

Most people tire of waiting and "settle" for someone long before they die. Then when their soul mate does show up, they divorce and run off with mr/miss "perfect for me". People need to learn patience. I have a neighbor that never married until he was 50. He just never found the right person until then. They have now been married over 30 years and are as happy as larks. Don't settle for something less than your intended one.