So I like this guy. I've been leaving him sexual hints that I like him. I laugh at all his jokes. I'm pretty much throwing myself at him and he's not responding the way I thought he would.
Does that mean that HughGRection, just isn't interested in me?
Should I just move on?
2006-09-11 09:01:51 · 26 answers · asked by ? 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sweetie, my di ck couldn't get much harder. I got up to greet a customer just now, and my flag pole nearly split my pants. I've even gone so far as print out your pic, blow it up and paste it to the back of gf's head while I'm nailing her from behind. what more can I do being 3000 miles away??
2006-09-11 09:08:59 · answer #1 · answered by HughGRection 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The best dating advice you can use is: Your attitude is an important ingredient in your dating success. You must have a good attitude.
Whether online or in the real world of close and personal, your attitude is everything. Your attitude about yourself and how you expect others to treat you, comes through everything you do. It doesn't matter if you are creating a profile, writing an email, talking over the phone or at a chic coffee house, who you are and your attitude speaks volumes.
Another dating advice worth taking note is not to take everything so seriously.
Every situation is different. Judge the situation and follow your gut instinct.
Only you can decide if you should move on.
Hope this helps.
2006-09-11 16:09:50 · answer #2 · answered by sunnyday11 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As a guy, women throw all kind of clues, flirt with, etc. at us all of the time. With this day and age of lawsuits and sexual harassment, men are taught to not respond too aggressively. Plus we are a little dense sometimes and don't pick up on clues.
If it were me, I would be flattered if a very pretty woman would ask me out instead of always having to do the asking. What's the worst they can say, no. Last time I looked, no one died or got hurt because of a little embarrassment.
2006-09-11 16:21:42 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
FlaChic has it right. Believe it or not, not all guys are sexual predators. Some guys really would prefer to take their time with a woman and allow a relationship to develop naturally. If that sounds boring to you, move on now. If you spend time on him, in hopes of "winning him", you'll be disappointed in the long run.
2006-09-11 17:59:57 · answer #4 · answered by yossarius 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could try one more thing which is be cool around him. Don't try too hard or throw yourself at him, you might be building up his self-confidence and making him feel like he has you interested without putting any effort into it. Playing hard to get with random flirtation might get him interested. If not, then it's time to move on. Good luck!
2006-09-11 16:14:49 · answer #5 · answered by FairyGirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're being too desperate. He knows he has the control because you're throwing yourself at him all the time. He won't respond if you're not a little bit of a challenge for him. It's all about the thrill of the hunt and chase.
2006-09-11 16:05:57 · answer #6 · answered by KC 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please do not throw yourself at him. It often comes off as a desperation tactic. Personally, if a girl throws herself at me and is overly aggressive, I get the feeling that she does that to most guys.
I'm sure he's gotten the hint by now. So, sit back for awhile, and see if he comes to you.
2006-09-11 16:06:33 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Remember, men do not always get the hints. Come right out and tell him what you want to do with him.
2006-09-11 16:06:08 · answer #8 · answered by b_iceman2001 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ya give him some space! Does he have a girl friend?
Lay off a little and see if he gives you any hints!
2006-09-11 16:11:00 · answer #9 · answered by not_your_average*chick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Uh, yea. Have some respect for yourself and quit throwing yourself at him. He probably isn't worth it.
2006-09-11 16:05:05 · answer #10 · answered by Punky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋