Do you value what you have, today I saw something I thought I would never see. Its been 4 years 2 months and 11 days until I last saw my first, last, and only girlfriend. Ironically I hate her so much, but today, I saw something truly amazing, I saw a person that looked EXACTLY like her, in almost everyway. I hate my ex more than anything for what she did to me, but honestly I couldn't help myself but feel so attracted to her, almost as if all the times I told my self that there would be someone else, were true. Alas though, I overheard here talking, and she was also the same age as my ex when I started dating her...just 16. Being 22, I don't really play the age group anymore, not that I ever did. I guess the lesson here is for everyone to ask yourself, honestly do you value what you have, because there are people out there, like me, who can't have (or want) any more relationships in their life’s, ever.
2006-09-11 08:41:30 · 2 answers · asked by D 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
And for the people that will apparently ***** about what I am saying, no I am not complaining nor feeling sorry for myself, if you didn't live my life you couldn't possibly know how I feel. I made this question in hopes that it might help someone.
2006-09-11 08:43:22 · update #1
It just seemed so weird...she looked just like my ex as she did on July 28, 2002, the very last time I ever saw her.
2006-09-11 08:44:58 · update #2
I value what I have and if I lost it, I would probably feel that I couldn't go on or into another relationship. Life goes on, and we need time to heal, I don't know how much time it would take to get over it, or if I ever would get over it.
It has been over 4 years since you were with this girl, since you two broke up and you are still hurt by her. I think you might need closure from her, you need to call her and talk to her, make things right, get back together or move on. You are missing some wonderful opportunities by just sitting there not wanting anything.
If I let my exgirlfriend hurt me like that I would be missing out on the wonderful thing I have now, and for that I dont want to miss a moment. I know I dont always say the right things or do the right things either, but for that I am sorry.
2006-09-17 16:53:29 · answer #1 · answered by Gary 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do you believe in fate?
2006-09-11 15:46:33 · answer #2 · answered by spacey51101 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋