i think i love my b/f but i dont know.
we have our problems here and there and im not sure if i love him deep down b/c there are parts of me that dont think he and i are right together.
we've nearly split up like twice and i feel like crap when that happened.. i get an icy feeling in my stomach and i just cry and cry. what does the icy feeling mean?
he treats me very good and is a great guy. i just dont know if i love him. what do you think?
2006-09-11 08:35:06 · 28 answers · asked by california gurlie poo 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
we can't tell you what you feel...hell an icy feeling can be gas. The feelings of love vary. Instead of trying to figure out if you love him....do you enjoy his company? can you see yourself with him ayear from now? do you share interest? do you have good conversation? does he make you laugh? If you answered yes to most or all of these questions, it doesn't mean your in love..BUT it does mean he is worth keeping for now. G'luck!
2006-09-11 08:43:49 · answer #1 · answered by Mean Carleen 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that if you did love him, you wouldn't have to ask yourself.
That icy feeling should happen when when you start to lose contact with anyone you care about. It always passes with time. If things don't work out with this particular prince charming, I can assure you that there are plenty of other prince's out there. Just be careful not to fool yourself and perceive a toad for this prince.
When you find the right love, that icy feeling in your stomach should develop into a warm comfort throughout your entire body!
2006-09-11 08:43:43 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most of these answers hit it right on the head, if you have to ask it is not love. When you break up it is always going to feel terrible. It's a scary feeling to think you might be alone, but it's not worth being with someone you have doubts about. I have been married for 30 years this October and I never had a doubt this was the guy for me. Of course everyone has problems, life goes up and down, but the bottom line is committment and unquestionable feelings.
2006-09-11 08:43:21 · answer #3 · answered by tealover 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is a certain feeling you get when you are with this person or talk about the person that your in love with. I think that icy feeling was your nervous cause you werent sure what was going to happen next. If your in love your face lights up when you talk about him and you could picture yourself with him/her forever. I cant tell you if your in love. But I am and thats what happens to me.
2006-09-11 08:40:04 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well.. I don't anyone except you can decide if you love him or not, as for that icy feeling , it could be fear, or you really could love him and you cant stand knowing that you were almost seperated. Sorry I couldnt be more help- Email me if you want. Good lucK!
2006-09-11 08:38:05 · answer #5 · answered by girl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you should know how u feel about him i can tell u what u really feel maybe u just tired of the problem i think that u guys should talk about ur feeling and try to work them out for the best of both of u
2006-09-11 08:38:52 · answer #6 · answered by Beautiful 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Boooh I think you are just a drama queen. If he is a great guy and you cry and cry when you break up.. Well I tell you what, You don't have to marry him so enjoy and treat him like a king. He deserves it. specially putting up with you. Love him and stop gaming.
2006-09-11 08:39:27 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The icy feeling isn't good, you probably don't love him, i'm sure you CARE about him but not love, there should be no doubts.
2006-09-11 08:38:09 · answer #8 · answered by Jayne s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
only you can answer this question ... maybe some time apart might help you make your decision ... but make sure its love and lust or even need ... some people are scared to be alone and in that they have relationships that aren't healthy.
Take a step back and look at the relationship and see what it is you feel ...
2006-09-11 08:40:34 · answer #9 · answered by emnari 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he is a great guy, but he's not your great guy. Listen to your gut and if it feels wrong or if you have to question weather you love him then that is not love. Don't settle, go find your prince.
2006-09-11 08:40:46 · answer #10 · answered by ann.natalie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋