I love her but I really dont know if she loves me. I dont know how to tell if she loves me because she is a little complicated.So please some one help me out with this one.
2006-09-11 08:29:52 · 15 answers · asked by Michael H 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well i think u guys have to talk seriously cuz it not a game i think u guys should talk about how u feel about each other i dont think is the best thing to break up with her if u love her i think take things slow and communicate with each other and try to make it work dont regret later that u broke up with her... good luck
2006-09-11 08:32:52 · answer #1 · answered by Beautiful 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can not break up with someone and not hurt their feelings. When you break up with this person be totally honest about not wanting to be a couple anyomore. Although she may hurt at first, she will respect you later on down the line. Do not prolong the break up, make it short and to the point. If you lead her on knowing your attentions is not wanting to be with her, she might go crazy. Really; she might even become violent like flat your tires, break your windows, throw a brick in your window, call and hang up. You never know she may even be waiting on you to break up with her so she can find someone else. Women do have the tendacy to throw hints whether than ask right out.
2006-09-11 08:45:13 · answer #2 · answered by Still_21_nheart 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't. She's gonna get hurt no matter what. All you need to do is explain how you feel and why your breaking up with her. Take advice from a woman, I've been broken up with before and the only reasons I got were I just need to be by myself for now. He left me with a million questions,then you know I started blaming myself and making up reasons for why he broke up with me. Not good. Just talk, explain why you need to end it. It's better to have an awnser than for her to wonder why.
2006-09-11 08:35:05 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no easy way to break up with someone you love.
But if you dont think she loves you back in the same way then your waisting you time. You need to sit down and talk to her about it and see were she sees the relationship going if anywhere.
Maybe you will come to a mutual break up decision.
2006-09-11 08:33:51 · answer #4 · answered by bree30 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't think it's possible not to hurt her. Women were aparently created with alot of emotion so your girlfriend going to feel something, even if its hurt. You could be gentle and give her lots of space to sort it all out. You could also look at past experiences and if she didn't love you then you would know by her actions. If she does then I'm happy for you both.
Good luck
2006-09-11 08:40:11 · answer #5 · answered by Sassy n' Sweet 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to talk to her. If you love her you should be able to talk to her. The last thing you would want to do is hurt and break her heart. I really think you need to talk to her. If you cant see sings that she loves you back i really think you need to ask her befor you make a big mistake and you never see her again.
2006-09-11 08:35:03 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell her that you don't think it's working out. If she asks why just tell her that you want to remain friends. Then continue to tell her how you feel. Some people can't show their love for you without saying it. Good luck!
2006-09-11 08:33:41 · answer #7 · answered by aimstir31 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honesty is the best policy...but seriously you should just ask her, and if you want to break up then just come right out and say it or break it to her gently like over dinner or something. Good Luck! Feel free to email me.
2006-09-11 08:33:12 · answer #8 · answered by girl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You want to dump with out hurting her feeling and you love her.
You sound complicated not her.
Just tell her you need to time on your own.
Then after a few months she'll forget about you.
as will I lol
2006-09-11 08:34:03 · answer #9 · answered by Mark ABC 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first of all don't just go up to her and say i don't like you and then walk away. Well when you and her actaully talk about it, it will come to you it always happens to guys its not like you right it down and then when the time comes you take it out and read when you are talking to her that is just stupid.
2006-09-11 08:34:30 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋