some of them are guys i used to date, and he thinks that they are bi and will still try to get with me. totally not true. he doesnt want having any guy friends even if theyre gay. why??
2006-09-11 08:29:32 · 9 answers · asked by california gurlie poo 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He's insecure and deep down thinks he doesn't deserve you and that, if you REALLY knew him, you wouldn't want him as a bf. Depending on age, those feelings may change with more years but you can't depend on that at all.
2006-09-11 08:53:39 · answer #1 · answered by DelK 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, i have 3 gay friends that i have knows since highschool. Some of my other friends dont understand it and make fun of them all the time. Becuase i know my friends well, they are insecure with gay people becuase they dont fully understand their own sexuality and they are not comfortable with themselves. I am one of the most chill people in the world, to each his own!! Tell your bf, to just chill. Trust, isnt being shown there, weather they are gay or straight or bi, whatever. Trust, and security. Much love hun. Good luck.
2006-09-11 15:41:25 · answer #2 · answered by Irish ME 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's afraid of the competion with the straight ones and afraid that the gay ones are looking at his backside. Common thing among guys, don't get upset with him.
2006-09-11 15:34:14 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its called insecurity. It doesnt matter for what reasons, that is just what it is. you should sit down and talk with him. if he wont listen and doesnt trust you (cuz that is what it comes down to) then maybe you should think about if this is the person you want to be with. someone who is going to try and control all of your relationships.
2006-09-11 15:36:56 · answer #4 · answered by scorpioangel22 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they make him unconfortable about his masculinity. You need to tell him love you, accept your friends. Otherwise tell him to hit the road
2006-09-11 15:35:48 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is probably insecure about his own sexuality
2006-09-11 15:35:24 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is a jelous type he probably dont want you to be seen with them
2006-09-11 15:42:09 · answer #7 · answered by justme 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yo da mama said it girl!!!
2006-09-11 15:36:18 · answer #8 · answered by akbarshahin 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's probably homophobic
2006-09-11 15:36:11 · answer #9 · answered by cara_hermosa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋