my girlfriend went back to her home country, the last time i spoke to her she was sick a bit then we lost touch so i was worried about her so i mailed her best friend about how is her health. bcoz of that my girlfriend is now very angry on me and she s nt talking to me?? I dont understand what the mistake i did. Whats wrong in it plz some one help me. try to explain we both love each other a lot. but such simple thing y is she making complicated. some one plz help!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-09-11 08:26:26 · 7 answers · asked by rodolfo_lauren 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
it might just b that time of the month for her but just talk 2 her and see whats up.
2006-09-11 08:45:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie-It sounds like she was gone long before you wrote the letter. If you "lost touch" it means she doesn't want to see you anymore. A letter to a friend just made a connection she was trying to break. There was something wrong in the first place. It is not logical that a letter asking about her health should make her angry. A communication that was to be avoided might have.
Good luck sweetie. There are plenty of girls left to take her place. Find one that really wants to be with you. Consider yourself better off without her.
2006-09-11 15:33:29 · answer #2 · answered by Kelli 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she thinks ur like her friend i think the both of u and the friend should go talk to her and show her what u send her and tell her u were really worried of her and that u care about her some much and that she got ur worried cuz u guys wouldnt talk and stuff and ask her whats going on does she like someone else or something talk to her right and calm ok good luck with ur girl
2006-09-11 15:30:40 · answer #3 · answered by Beautiful 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is very insecure. Be careful if this can happen for something as simple as that then sorry to tell you its only the tip of the iceberg. Talk to her about this or just cut your loses and get out....long distance relationships dont work anywayz.
2006-09-11 15:30:56 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think, from your girlfriend's perspective, she may be upset that you didn't write her rather than her friend. Why she is upset, only she knows probably.
Perhaps give her time to calm down then simply tell her that you didn't intend to upset her and that you're sorry that writing to her friend upset her.
I wish you all the best and that things will improve between the two of you.
2006-09-11 15:33:33 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
As a girl...if my guy did that I'd feel like he didn't want to talk to me and why ask my friend and not me, it would hurt my feelings. Why didn't you call her? Even if I was sick I'd answer my BF's call. Long-distance....they never work out.
2006-09-11 15:33:51 · answer #6 · answered by Yokihana 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well she could be mad because you e-mailed her best friend, instead of getting ahold of her and checking up on her, instead.
2006-09-11 15:29:08 · answer #7 · answered by Lyssa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋