"i'd rather get to know my new date between the sheets, than over a drink in the pub"? or would you say she's cheap??
2006-09-11 08:25:38 · 37 answers · asked by RedHead 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
hey!! a lot of guys can safely think and act this way, leaving tons of broken hearted girls, so what's the big deal if a girl acted this way?!
2006-09-11 08:29:19 · update #1
I'm not saying that I think about it this way... I'm just saying this to prove how stuck up some people are, why would we accept it one way, but not the other way around?!
2006-09-11 08:41:35 · update #2
Hey most guys I know (Including myself) have had the same thought more often than not, and whats good for the gander is good for the goose too right? I'm also fairly sure your date wouldn't mind much :)
Seriously though it is not ONLY our thoughts that define us but how we act on those thoughts. If that was your only thought I'd be concerned, but your question here at least tells me you are also tempering this thought with a very healthy measure of caution.
Choose the time and place carefully, take all the usual precautions, get a friend to call at totally inappropriate moments :) and have the local hockey team on standby next door in-case you need to bail.
And I'd never refer to you as cheap, insults have a nasty habit of reflecting the true nature of the insulter.
2006-09-11 08:44:32 · answer #1 · answered by Rysiek 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It really depends on the guy. Some guys really don understatd and cannot differ the 2 situations. Well, thing is that there is no difference on knowing ur partner in bed or over a drink. Cuz its all mutual understandin thats being developed. however the sequence of these events usually matters and leads many guys to misunderstandin. Same thing happens for girls too. But if u found sb with whom chemistry is working, and u are a major mind reader in that u can see, this type of first encounter will not cause ur future possible partner have some weird ideas about u ( or if u dont mind if he does) then go on.
Its the very basic instinct that drives us.
Good luck!
2006-09-11 09:01:12 · answer #2 · answered by calm_blue_ocean_1981 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honesty is absolutely the best way to go. But we are in a society that still likes to hang the "Scarlet Letter" on people. I have met women that are honest about what they want, to include a one night stand. It is refreshing when you meet those women because it removes all the head games from the playing field.
2006-09-11 08:30:18 · answer #3 · answered by Just Another Guy 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't think she is "cheap"...I suppose if the girl is attracted to the other guy and she hasn't had sex in a while than she would feel that way. I know when I first started dating my girlfriend we had to make sure that we took things slow; so, we ended up at the bar a lot more.
HAHA!
2006-09-11 08:28:20 · answer #4 · answered by flyboop_2000 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'd say she's cheap, and i don't really think it's acceptable for men to behave this way either, you may get to know these men but not one of them will take you seriously or respect you.
2006-09-11 08:34:04 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know if you want to tell a guy that from the get go: why not go for drinks and then go between the sheets? Then it at least looks like you aren't so easy.
2006-09-11 08:28:53 · answer #6 · answered by Boo Bah 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I'd say go for what makes you happy, if it goes wrong atleast you can learn from you mistakes, thats the best part about being young cause you have loads of time to put things right if it goes t1ts up.
2006-09-11 08:40:28 · answer #7 · answered by xtra_wu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, sex in a relationship is very important. You will discover quite a bit about your partner during a romp in the sack. As long as you are attracted to the person, doesn't sound cheap at all.
2006-09-11 08:30:24 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Guys love to have fun with sleazy chicks. We'll use them for all they're worth but we'll NEVER respect them. Instead we'll just brag about nailing a cheap, easy girl and move on to another one.
Easy girls end up alone, good girls end up with a serious relationship
2006-09-11 08:28:19 · answer #9 · answered by bad_dog76 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Look at it this way: There's nothing to hide. The truth will come out about the people's true character.
2006-09-11 08:28:32 · answer #10 · answered by ntoriano 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋