yea so heres how it is... every summer i go to visit my cousin. this year i hooked up with her best friend. sure the sexual part of it was awesome... but i had a really awesome time with her.. we chilled, and went to the movies and i really enjoyed spending time with her. now the problem is that my cousin lives 12 hours away. i only go visit my cousin for two weeks out of the year. i know this sounds really lame or whatever, and ill prolly get called a p*ssy for sayin this, but im havin a really hard time not being with her. we talk all the time on the phone, but i had such an amzing time with her, i cant stand not being with her... we tried phone sex. well i've been actively sexual for about two years now, but ive never done phone sex. it was kind of awkward and i felt like a pornstar or sumthing. any tips on how to make it more comfortable? im not trying to be perverted but im in a pickle... she says she enjoyed it but i dont know if she didnt want me to feel bad. help pleez! thanks!
2006-09-11 08:21:18 · 2 answers · asked by togaparty456 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Im 16 and driving but with football and my classes, i dont have time to visit except for christmas and spring break and summer.
2006-09-11 08:22:08 · update #1
sex wasn't the reason at all. i had an awesome time with her. i just heard sex keeps the relationship "alive"
2006-09-11 08:28:04 · update #2
long distance relationships can work, I used to live in missouri and moved to cali to be with my one and only, we talked on the phone and internet for more than 6 months before I decided to move to be with her, I know how it can be, we never did have phone sex, but we did talk about what we each like and dislike.
somehting that helped me is texting on my phone to her and using the yahoo ims, its alot easier to tell your feelings that way, i am very shy and I find that texting is an easier way to tell someone something personal... try doing it just texting or using yahoo im or something and see how it goes...
good luck
2006-09-11 08:31:07 · answer #1 · answered by penguin 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
At 16 I doubt you have the patience to deal with a long distance relationship. It sounds to me like you're more interested in sex than anything else. Once you mature enough then maybe you would know what it is to have a long distance or any meaningful relationship.
Just for your knowledge, sex isn't the only thing involved in a relationship.
2006-09-11 08:25:28 · answer #2 · answered by bad_dog76 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋