He's fat, like CHUB CHUB?

Question

What do I do?

I love him dearly. but hes portly and has thatt stupid accent.

when we met he was hot. we wrote letters for five years, LDR. i fell in LOVE with his personality. and we finally met up in person. and he had gained 68 pounds.


68 POUNDS IN FIVE YEARS.

and his english accent is stupid


i love him how do i move past this?

Just so you guys know.....

I am a very attractive woman. Dark ebony skin, blue eyes (coloured contacts!) and a silky blonde 'fro.

Any guy's lucky to have me. Men stare at me everywhere I go.

I could have any guy. But i chose this one, he's special you know? But he's too fat and ugly for me to be seen in public with.

I'm not conceited, just honest.

PLEASE GIVE NICER ANSWERS/

Answer 1

i bet he always weighed that much just you never knew.
Anyway, take him to a doctor, that kind of weight needs attention.

Answer 2

If you really loved him the accent and weight gain wouldn't matter. I would encourage him to diet and exercise for his own health, not because it repulses you. There isn't much you can do about the way he talks! This must be the result of falling in love with a "personality" on line. The real person can never live up to the projected image you have of them. Sad.

Answer 3

If you truly love him, none of this would matter. My husband has gained 65 pounds over the course of our marriage and still, even after 10 years has a thick Aussie accent. I love him, so I accept it.

Answer 4

If you really are in love you need to discuss these feelings. If not you need to let the man go now and save him his dignity. I'm not even going to comment on his weight but to slame his english accent is cruel. Dig deep in your heart and discover how you feel and resolve what is going on in your own heart and head.

Answer 5

You made a question about hating his accent, now your posting a question about his weight. It's obvious you don't care enough about who this guys is to be with him unconditonally so just move on. If you can't look past a few flaws then you don't love him.

Answer 6

HAHAHAHA!!! That is why you never meet people over the internet. If you love him stay with him, if not leave. Tell him the truth that he is fat and has a stupid accent then he'll leave you. He may bug you asking why you are so heartless and ignoring him, but hey, you'll get rid of him. That's reality.

Answer 7

honest my hind-end...looks like you need to let him go if he has a stupid accent, and in my opinion austrailian accents are annoying! by judging your avatar you are definately not an attractive woman...and if you really loved your boyfriend or husband then you wouldnt care if he was fat or anything like that. you are plum pathetic! =\\

Answer 8

well geez if you love him just live with it! because looks really don't matter when you love someone! There is this guy that i am friends with we chatted on the net for weeks and personalitys clicked but good! he described himself very accuratly did not lie to me and when we met face to face his looks did not turn me off! In fact i thought he was kinda cute! and he is older and on the heavy side! but iam on the heavyside myself! so you know like i said lookd so don't matter if you are friends with or in love with someone you just have to accept them for who they are!and they have to do the same for you!

Answer 9

you obviously do not love him, if you did you would not see his size only him and you would not hear the accent, only his voice,
think about what you have said and be truthful, he at least deserves that from you,
have you ever seen the film, shallow hal ?
if not, maybe you should.

Answer 10

i hope that he reads this and dumps you. you are very concieted. i hope i spelt that right coz you deserve it. so what hes 68 pounds bigger. if you love him thats all that should matter not what he looks like.