ok, so theres this one guy, he's 18, I'm 16. i recently made out with him one night and then the whole summer he wouldn't reply to my msgs. then once school started again he slowly started talkin to me again. He'll send me msgs some days but others he'll just ignore my msgs. am i doing something wrong? is he just shy? does he want to stay friends only? ~because I'm fine with that. Some other days he'll flirt with me and some other days all we say is hi. he gets on my school bus so i have to see him everyday. according to my friends, he stares a lot at me whilst in school, like, at lunch and at breaks... I7m tired of getting mixed signals... what should i do?? is this normal??
2006-09-11 07:36:08 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Try talking to him instead of msgs
2006-09-11 07:38:21 · answer #1 · answered by ImSpoilednLoveit 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not doing anything wrong. Most Guys at that age dont know what they want. Yes he might like you, but does he want to have a GF? Maybe, maybe not. Then he cant go around and meet other girls and hang out with the guys you know how it goes. Plus if you were messaging him all summer, he might have felt bothered or annoyed. You should never show a guy that you are sooo interested before you actually have them. They feel it as an inconvenience, like they are being nagged.
I wouldn't read into it that much. Have fun, date other guys. Dont pay him any attention. Maybe he will come around one day and become more mature. (That may be a long time though LOL)
2006-09-11 14:45:13 · answer #2 · answered by jam_psb 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he might like you. he is probably staying at a distance because of your age and who knows maybe his friends are giving him a hard time about him talking to a younger girl in school. either way he is sending you mixed messages and that's nor cool i say keep it friendly just stick to the hi and you don't send him messages let him text you and let him wait for your reply turn the tables on him good luck.......
2006-09-11 14:53:05 · answer #3 · answered by tinker 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe the guy is just a weirdo with issues that go far beyond your summer make out session. It sounds like you have made it clear that you would like to explore with him to see if there is anything more serious between you. If he isn't willing to step up, then maybe you should prepare to look elsewhere.
2006-09-11 14:39:42 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people a very changeable like that and if it bothers you then I'd say move on because these people never change. You never know from one day to the next what to expect.
2006-09-11 14:39:09 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its possible he was seeing someone else this summer or maybe he is just shy give him a little more time but at least talk to him about it before you give up on him
2006-09-11 14:40:51 · answer #6 · answered by crysram27 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like he's just playing the game and trying to get you hooked. he's not shy if he's flirting with you some days and not others. maybe he has some sort of roster for flirting with girls. rachel one day, mandy he next, then you haha. i'd ignore him if i were you though.
2006-09-11 14:41:57 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you should do is to ASK him. You say you're tired of getting mixed signals and yet you haven't discussed this with him. Why not?
2006-09-11 14:39:34 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are jailbait and he probably realized he could get in trouble by dating you. Let it go and move on with a guy your own age.
2006-09-11 14:38:22 · answer #9 · answered by Pantherempress 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its normal........he hit it! and now he just wants to keep the friendship so he can come back from time to time! but on his time, so that is the reason for him no answering the phone!
2006-09-11 14:38:50 · answer #10 · answered by Ace boon coon 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋