I broke up with my ex of 4 years, He was not given me the atention that I need it because of hes work and baseball games. OUr relationship was good but hes atitude mess it up. He broke up with me once for a month and then we when back together. This time I broke up with him. Should I spect him to call me? Should I wait? I know is only been a week but I am desperate! I still love him but I don't want to call because I want to see if he really loves me...
2006-09-11 07:33:45 · 18 answers · asked by ~~~~^~~~~ 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
why should he call you kicked him to the curb.if you want him so badly just call him back.
2006-09-11 08:11:15 · answer #1 · answered by Doomsday 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do women always place men in "test" situations like this??? Usually it ends up with the man failing anyway.
It may take more than a week for him to call you, guys think alot differently from girls so it may be more than a week. He will grow tired of his freedom and start to REALLY miss you soon, that is if you both had a good relationship and the only thing that ended it was "no time together"..
It all depends on how much you really miss and how it ended..if it ended badly he may not want to get back with you....
But if you really love this guy, why does he have to prove how much he loves you if you left him??......shouldn't it be the other way around???
I am curious...You said becuase of work and baseball games is the reason he is not paying attention to you... Work is understandable becuase he HAS to work...But baseball games... is he in a league?? or is he going out with his friends to watch baseball games??
2006-09-11 07:44:16 · answer #2 · answered by leog7one 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you want to go back with him if he wasn't giving you what you want? Obviously he was very dedicated to his job and baseball games and he just didn't put enough effort into you. Do you think things are going to be different if you go back w/ him?? most likely not?MOVE ON. Yes, i know is hard, and you will have tough times, but you will come out on top. He's not the only guy in this world. and maybe right now is not the time for you and him. SPend time on yourself. Don't wait around!
Best of luck
2006-09-11 07:38:16 · answer #3 · answered by A_Latina 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Now the definition of "break up" means that it's over. You should never take that lightly. If breaking up with a partner was a test of love, your basically playing with fire. Take it from me, I broke up with my ex for the same reasons to see if he would call. But he never did. We broke up 6 times before that and got back together. This time was different. I played with fire and got burnt. I suggest to you that if you truely love him, suck up your pride and you better get him back, even if that means you have to call him. Explain the situation. Can't guarentee he'll feel the same. You can't control his actions only yours. My suggestion, move on. Don't expect him to call, because it's over now and you have your life.
2006-09-11 07:42:37 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No games! This break up, get back, break up, get back is childish. You need to just move on because this is not a relationship. I know it's hard - believe me, I've been thru some hard break-ups. But time will heal pain and you just have to tell yourself that you're strong enough to make it thru. It will get easier! You're not desperate, so get over that pathetic thought. Don't worry about him, find someone who will treat you right and don't settle for anything less.
2006-09-11 07:37:27 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why should he call u back?? YOU just broke up with him...remember?? so why cause himself more pain by still talking to you, if i were him id try to forget about u too. How is he suppose to know that u want him back or want him to still call? Cause all he knows is you broke up with him and most of the times that means you dont wanna to be near him again or talk.
2006-09-11 07:40:48 · answer #6 · answered by rickysol82 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on. Even if you got back together, it would not change anything. My guess is if he went back to you after a month it was only for one thing. Just decide to move on and focus on other things for a while
2006-09-11 07:38:16 · answer #7 · answered by blondee 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give it some time, if you still feel that way in a couple of weeks, then call him, or wait for him to call you
2006-09-11 07:37:48 · answer #8 · answered by SHE HATE ME 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait one more week and call him
do not ask him why he hasnt call u
do not talk about relationship
just small talk
hey how are u
what r u up too
2006-09-11 07:37:44 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he doesn't call you, it's time to move on with your life. If he really loved you, he'd make more time to be with you.
2006-09-11 07:38:07 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋