I was just wondering if there is any guy in this world that would ask a girl out not based on her looks but on her personality. In my experience I have never witnessed anyone getting asked out or even talked to for that matter- by a guy who wasnt like super hot. Just wondering ( I dont mean to offend anybody) Thanks!!
2006-09-11 07:23:36 · 25 answers · asked by girl 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, I can answer this one based on my own experience...
First of all, I won't deny that physical attraction is part of what draws me to a woman but that isn't the only quality.
The fact is that I consider their personality as important or more important than looks. In fact, if a woman is "super hot" I'd probably be too intimidated to ask her out...
Ultimately, even if attraction was mostly physical, I'd need to be attracted to a woman's personality to want to be with her or go out with her.
This is really an extreme example but no matter how "hot" Paris Hilton might be, I just don't find her appealing mainly due to the personality she exhibits in public.
Looks may not last but character does.
2006-09-11 07:38:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im a what you would call a very atractive guy, I have a thing where I dont want ppl to think im shallow or stuck up. So I talk to everybody, even the ugly chicks. In return It works in my favor because all the hot chicks are like " well if he treats that ugly girl good, then I bet he'll treat me like a queen" So when Im in a new environment or party I find a unattractive girl and spark up a conversation, throw my head back and laugh as if im interested in what she has to say. 9 times out of 10 all eyes are on me, so thats when all the women try to get at me. In return the ugly chick is considered popular now because all the hpretty chicks want to know what is he like?, what did he say, and I nornally remain friends with the ugly chick. It works for both of us.
2006-09-11 14:31:34 · answer #2 · answered by Dr. Love 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not going to approach a girl whom i think is ugly. If she looks ok, I will talk to her. If she seems nice, I'd ask her out. I've never even considered asking a girl out that I haven't spoken with for a while already and decided that she's interesting and has a good personality.
Having just looks or just personality is not enough for me. You have to have some of each.
Good luck finding the right guy :)
2006-09-11 14:49:46 · answer #3 · answered by Magina 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe there are people like that.. But not a common breed ;p Haha.. I don't go out with guys whom I don't find attractive either. And, I have seen guys asking girls out not based on the looks but the benefits which the girls can give. Anyway, dating always starts with personal interest. I don't see 1st date starts with a person who just want the girl or guy to feel special without any return of feelings or benefits. Personal interest can be good also. Such as, you like the person and want him/her to like you too. That's mostly harmless. I 1st dated my boyfirend because I was attracted by his look. That was personal interest.
2006-09-11 14:31:53 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girls with the looks will get the most attention because physical attraction is the first step to liking someone. Liking someone for their personality takes time. The main thing holding most people back is their image as a couple to other people if they go out with an ugly girl. Someone will see how you are inside one day and like you for that.
2006-09-11 14:31:40 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course there are! The hot girls will get more attention but it;s usually by guys with one thing on their mind. Those guys who will ask a girl out based on their personality are, more often than not, genuinely interested in her...not as a trophy g/f or sex object but as a person.
2006-09-11 14:34:57 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would rather base a relationship on personality because in time looks change, lets face it most of us will gain weight, lose hair, and other unattractive things. But, some physical attraction has to be present, Would you go out with someone you thought was really ugly?
2006-09-11 14:31:23 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, let's be honest, there has to be SOME physical attraction. But, that does not need to be the primary item in asking a girl out. Personality does go a long way.
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2006-09-11 14:27:28 · answer #8 · answered by Echelon Right 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm a chic but here's my take on it. Everybody has likes and dislikes, some like a smile, some like dark brooding looks , breasts , personality, etc. There is someone out there that probly thinks your hot and you dont even know it, they are probly too shy to approach. I guess what I'm trying to say is there is someone for everybody, it's just a matter of finding them.
2006-09-11 14:28:10 · answer #9 · answered by angie g 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personality is the most important thing in a relationship. I have dated many attractive woman who had the personality of a squid. By far a somewhat plain woman with a terrific sense of humor and a kick *** personality is the hottest.
2006-09-11 14:33:35 · answer #10 · answered by fortyninertu 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋