My spouse is addicted to pain medication but doesn't think it's a problem, We have an 81/2 month old daughter and one on the way. I worry about him but also are kid's growing up with a father who won't get help for his problem. What should i do leave or stay?
2006-09-11 07:23:11 · 8 answers · asked by goo-goo girl 1 in Food & Drink ➔ Other - Food & Drink
if i were you i would leave. you have an obligation to keep you and your babies safe and keeping them from an addict even if he is their father is safe. good luck
2006-09-11 07:30:14 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're rather no longer a foul individual for taking soreness medicine. in some circumstances it rather is rather mandatory. Have i individually had some thing different than medicine heal the soreness? confident. basically final week I had a foul migraine brewing as our community choir prepare began. As I sang the appealing, complicated song of the Messiah and the baroque music in German we've been engaged on, the soreness completely went away and stayed away. no remember if it replaced into the diversion or the song itself i don't comprehend for specific. I basically comprehend it worked. i'm in a position to "think of away" some soreness besides, frequently extra minor soreness. i've got discovered that stress factor rubdown scientific care has healed lots muscle soreness i've got had. i've got additionally had staggering reports with prayer healing the soreness - and the ailment or injury that brought about the soreness. For some varieties warmth takes it away at an identical time as for different varieties ice packs paintings extra appropriate. I actual have additionally had many circumstances while the only element that ought to guard it replaced into medicine. Do what works for you, and what you sense delicate utilising and don't difficulty approximately what every person else says. this is between you and your healthcare professional.
2016-11-07 02:54:18 · answer #2 · answered by shuey 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
diturtlelady is right. Al-anon will help you in any way they can to cope with this and strengthen you to take care of your daughter and child on the way. Who knows, maybe once your husband sees that you feel that it is a big problem, he will want to stop. But you can't tell him to stop because that won't work. He has to be willing to quit on his own, and if he does want to stop, tell him to get ahold of Narcotics Anonymous, they will give him the suport he needs, although he may need to go through detox first. It is never safe to detox from drugs alone without medical supervision. Good Luck!
2006-09-11 07:31:46 · answer #3 · answered by JenJen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yep, Al-Anon is definitely a good place to go. And there is also a show called "Intervention" where family or friends can hold an intervention for the person they're worried about. It also gives some good information about dealing with this sort of situation.
2006-09-11 07:30:57 · answer #4 · answered by Souris 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to AL- Anon. It is for people who have family with substance abuse problems. I would think they may have some answers for you. Look in your local paper. They list times and places for their gatherings and are confidential.
2006-09-11 07:27:04 · answer #5 · answered by diturtlelady2004 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Agreed: Go to Al-anon.
And remember that your daughter is important, if you have to make a choice.
Good luck!
2006-09-11 07:30:48 · answer #6 · answered by Tigger 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if you feel that you and your kids are in danger or are being mentally affected yes..if he can't help himself then you must think of you and the kids...also you best tell your doctor that your husband was on drugs when baby was conceived to make sure the baby is OK...what is in him is as important as the mother...good luck..
2006-09-11 07:35:02 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Al-anon. Only place that can help.
2006-09-11 07:37:48 · answer #8 · answered by super.sweep 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋