I'm kinda shy when it comes to sex stuff but my bf is like a horny toad. I want to fullfill his "needs" but cant even initiate sex. What are some small suggestions on some starter sexy ideas?
2006-09-11 07:20:01 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
try to find out what his definition of sexy is....then go with it. some guys find classy teddys sexy. some prefer a nice matching bra and panties set very nice too...you really should see what he finds sexy! my boyfriend finds it sexy that I'm just so into him. that and stroking his beard and chest hairs while I'm in boxers and a tee shirt. get the idea? it's a personal thing that only you and him can figure out. good luck, i hope someone else here has some better suggestions for you than i did. lol.
2006-09-11 07:27:54 · answer #1 · answered by ♥ Callie ♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A little bit of lingerie goes along way. Why can't you inititate sex? Maybe you should try taking a shower together, given him a massage etc. Keep up the physical contact.
2006-09-11 07:23:49 · answer #2 · answered by Confused Yahoo User 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wear a thong and sexy stuff for him. That would be private, and take care of his needs, and your need not to seem trashy.
2006-09-11 07:23:08 · answer #3 · answered by ecmcr699 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dress in an outfit that makes u feel hot and let the rest do it on its on wear stuff that flatters best features
no need to be skank about it
i wear jeans tee and my boots and it works
2006-09-11 07:24:11 · answer #4 · answered by tiggermouse73 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
BE SEXY FOR YOURSELF. I think it is fun to read more about it. Or check in with people I trust.
2006-09-11 07:26:42 · answer #5 · answered by mike t 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wear sexy lingerie, that pretty much does the trick, you don't have to say anything or do anything and you'll turn him on (sounds like he doesn't need to be turned on though).
2006-09-11 07:22:43 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be real suggestive, wear cute little outfits like plain cotton shorts or shirts, teasingly tickle him or wrestle him to bait him into what you want
2006-09-11 07:25:45 · answer #7 · answered by 10 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
School girl uniforms alway's do it for any man.
2006-09-11 07:22:47 · answer #8 · answered by YAHOO SUCKS ASS 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, if he doesn't want to respect you, for who you are, I would dump him! I'm also shy and I want to be treated with respect!
2006-09-11 07:56:44 · answer #9 · answered by Lorla 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋