I know this goes with my other question, but I have to ask what I should do? I really love talking and being with my best guyfriend (we are friends w/benefits), but he's 5 hours away and I can tell he's lonely (and horny) right now. But I also have this really sweet Brazilian guy that wants to go out with me, and he's cute too. Should I try it out with the brazilian guy and if it doesn't work out I have my bgf I can have fun with when he comes back?
2006-09-11 07:18:39 · 11 answers · asked by slyshewolf 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Wow. . sounds to me like you are a bit of a whore maybe. . . but thats ok. . . . I like whores!! Ha Ha Ha ha Ha. I think you like the licky licky huh? If you are in to friends with benefits. . . I think I want to be your friend!!! Ha Ha ha. Seriously though. . . . it sounds like your guy friend who is 5 hrs away is where your heart is. . even if your vergina is in both places. If you really love talking and being with the guy 5 hours away. . . well. . it sounds like you two get along very well and maybe should give it a try!
I don't know what label you and the guy 5 hrs away have put on your situation or relationship but try this. Imagine him screwing another girl. . . . or. . .imagine him telling you he has a girlfriend now and can no longer have friendly visits with you with benefits. . or imagine you go to surprise him one weekend and walk in on him screwing another girl. How do you feel when you imagine that? Now ask yourself the same questions about emilio. . or whatever the brazillian guys name is? Do you feel the same? Obviously I have way too little info to make a solid judgement on your situation but it sounds like maybe you are interested in the Brazillian guy because he is Brazillian, cute, and you are horny. It sounds like you are interested in the guy 5 hrs away because you two connect and there is something deeper there. Good luck to you. . . . just think about things . . . . and be protective of yourself in all ways!!
2006-09-11 07:29:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think you should try it out with the Brazilian guy, because everytime that two good friends who end up dating, normally end with a lost friendship. I think you should first follow your heart, because if you have feelings for you best friend and he also has feelings for you two then go for it with you friend. Now if you're just not sure then I would recommend the brazilian guy, try it out, it won't hurt, then if it doesn't go we'll then try it with your friend if you want to.
2006-09-11 07:24:04 · answer #2 · answered by Maria A 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The bottomline is that your not commited to either one of these guys. Why not have your cake and eat it too? Seriously I saw hang out with the brazillian guy. See where it goes.. if it works out.. great. If not go back to bangin the BGF
2006-09-11 07:22:01 · answer #3 · answered by Confused Yahoo User 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
hey babe
hop onto that Brazilian in your bed instead of the friend 5 hours away. Youll smile more.
2006-09-11 07:21:45 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Try not to be a w#ore about it. Date one man at a time and don't use your BGF just to have someone to do.
2006-09-11 07:23:35 · answer #5 · answered by ? 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
well did u think how ur bestfriend would feel...how u feel if he was doin that to u...its really up to u what u wanna do dont let nobody tell what to do..do whats right...think with ur heart and feel..make the right decsion...good luck...
2006-09-11 07:26:17 · answer #6 · answered by maddan_360 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no don't try anytin with the brazillian guy.just be faithful with ur guy
2006-09-11 07:26:24 · answer #7 · answered by shebaby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea you should cause he is just a friend n may be even he is havin fun with someone..
2006-09-11 07:22:07 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do them both. What's the problem with that as long as you don't lie to anyone.
2006-09-11 07:21:50 · answer #9 · answered by ecmcr699 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
How about being a lady and not a tramp?
2006-09-11 07:21:15 · answer #10 · answered by AsianPersuasion :) 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋