ok. its been 5 months since me and my x-boyfriend broke up. we broke up because he said i used to always treat him like my dog, and i mean to be honest i did treat him like crap but not always at times i was nice. we dated for 1yr7monthswhich all he made me the happiest person n da world but i was so immature n all da time i always be getting mad over dumb reasons the fact he got tired n we were done. he broke up w/me ova da phone during spring break, when we came back to school at the second day i see him already wt a new gurl n was already goign out w/her now they still together. n i can believe that after all taht time togehtr he is over me that quick. . i mean he was da type of guy that will get on his knees infront of all this ppl cry and beg me he would never care "what they'llsay" he showed me he was deeply in luv wt me. he even gave me an engagement ring. i wonder if he one day he'll be back n if there will be another chance 4 us. should i wait 4 him to come back or move on????
2006-09-11 07:18:11 · 9 answers · asked by nostalgic_lover 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He left you long before he broke up with you. You treated him like crap and he isn't ever coming back to you. Learn form this mistake and grow into a mature caring and giving person. People aren't lap dogs or personal slaves.
2006-09-11 07:22:06 · answer #1 · answered by Pantherempress 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like it's too late for the two of you. Especially if it has already been 5 months. But only you know what is really going on. Does he still call you? talk to you? look at you in that special way? If he does maybe there is a shot. You need to talk to him and tell him how you feel. Apologize!!!! Never treat someone that way again! This is what happens. You can't keep a quality guy if you treat him that way. You can keep a weak guy that you wont want or respect by treating him that way, but who wants that??? Your only hope is to talk to him. He's not coming back on his own, if at all. You screwed it up by treating him that way, you have to fix it. You have to prove your love and show him you realize your mistakes. Then do not make them again. If you end up moving on as well treat your new boyfriend very nicely. Maybe then he'll see you've changed and you can at least have a friendship...or more...who knows! Good luck!!!!!!
2006-09-11 07:28:16 · answer #2 · answered by sunnydayzd 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey honey! Its obvious to see you do still care for this guy, but i suggest you move on. You might not wanna hear that but if he has then that's all you can do at this point. There is no reason to say that it might never happen again becuz when something is meant to be it happens but as of right now i think you should see what else is out there for you. You never know you could find even better. Don't ever limit yourself and don't ever wait for nothing!
2006-09-11 07:28:02 · answer #3 · answered by K@t 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
In my opinion I think you should move on he is not going to get back with you cause like you said he felt like your dog. Once a guy moves on he obviously found some one who he THINKS treats him nicer he is not going to risk going back to some one who treats him bad. I think he wasnt the guy for you trust me if he were you wouldnt have treated him bad you will find the guy thats right for you trust me there are better guys out there. Plus if he moved on so fast why should you wait. Goodluck
2006-09-11 07:26:45 · answer #4 · answered by lola 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just let him go. If he loves you enough, he'll be back. If you beg, cry, and plead with him to come back, you'll just make yourself look pathetic.
Move on to something else and try to forget the past. There's so much more in the world that just one guy.
2006-09-11 07:24:06 · answer #5 · answered by ruthncls 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i think you missed the boat on this one, he was a nice guy, you treated him like sh*t and he moved on, now its your turn to take the loss and move on
2006-09-11 07:21:18 · answer #6 · answered by SHE HATE ME 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
MOVE ON AS FAST AS YOU CAN.. TRY TO BE NICER TO PEOPLE & NOT TREAT THEM BADLY.
2006-09-11 07:31:14 · answer #7 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on...........you done hurt his feeling! see girls like you is why i cant find me a goodym! ;)
you had what most women want and blew it!
2006-09-11 07:24:15 · answer #8 · answered by Ace boon coon 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
what are you trying to say?
2006-09-11 07:26:05 · answer #9 · answered by sunshine 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋