Here is a deal i found a girl finaly i'm so happy i'm in love with her but the problem is that i'm sexualy-unexpirienst. And i found out that she is a virgin. Now the question is what should i do to make it as less pinfull for her as posible. I mean should i just stick it in or i should do it slowly? Plz guys and girls i need help here. Thank you. Thank you very much
2006-09-11 07:16:15 · 10 answers · asked by boosterspd 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if your asking a question like that you arent adult enough to be having sex
2006-09-11 07:18:43 · answer #1 · answered by johnnys_angel_82 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Wow, blind leading blind. I wish I could be there to videotape that. It would be the kind of case study that sex therapist dream for.
Don't worry my friend. We've all been there before. Just poke around down there gently until you unlock her door so to speak. You both will shiver a lot and will be nervous. If it doesn't happen the first time, don't panic. Take a breather and just sleep together. Eventually, you'll both be comfortable around each other and then it'll happen easily.
I think you might want to have a lot of oral pleasure prior to any inserting just to establish trust to one another. I mean, if you've both tasted each other, you've both pretty much revealed yourselves more to each other than anyone else and that will releave some of the stress and anxiety.
"69" is usually a gentle way of two virgins slowly devirginizing each other.
If you both find that "yucky", then, just make out a lot while naked and cuddle a lot until you both intuitively feel "hot" and "sexy" at the same time. The problem is that in the beginning, you'll both be nervous as hell because you'll be hearing the "I'm a virgin, I haven't got a clue as to what I'm doing" voices. The key is to trust yourself and the woman you are making love to.
You'll be fine.
Most of mankind has been in a similar situation as the one you find yourself in!
Good luck, don't let us down, and we want a full report next Monday.
2006-09-11 14:24:53 · answer #2 · answered by Tones 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first off, let her decide when the time is right. She will feel alot safer in having her first time be with you if you don't pressure her in any ways to do the deed. When the time is right, just make sure there is lots of foreplay so that her body is ready for you. Don't rush it at all or it could be EXTREMELY painful for her. Go slow and make sure she lets you know how she is feeling and when she is ready. Take your time. Make it memorable for her. Good luck :)
2006-09-11 14:22:51 · answer #3 · answered by XxbrooklynnxX 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow! You sure don't know much about sex! How old are you anyhow?
I would suggest first wait till your married.
If you decide not too, go easy on her! Dude, you need to get a life!
2006-09-11 14:25:40 · answer #4 · answered by Lorla 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to go slow and communicate allot, ask if your hurting her and then stop and go slower yet. It is going to hurt her a little no matter what, but you can make it more bearable by being understanding and compassionate.
2006-09-11 14:19:54 · answer #5 · answered by LadyL 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Use lubrication and go in very slowly. Make sure there is lots of foreplay beforehand as well.
2006-09-11 14:19:28 · answer #6 · answered by AsianPersuasion :) 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't do it at all. you may think you are in love but you are probably in love with thinking you might do something. wait until your older. take it slow
2006-09-11 14:20:58 · answer #7 · answered by snoopdizzal 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go slow untill she gets use to it
2006-09-11 14:26:00 · answer #8 · answered by thegreatone6111 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Slowly....Hey you could learn together...watch a porno...
2006-09-11 14:21:40 · answer #9 · answered by bellita_716 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're too young.
2006-09-11 14:19:06 · answer #10 · answered by Peter Pan 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋