I was at a Happy Hour with coworkers last Friday night and the alcohol was flowing. As the night started to wind down I was there with 2str8 male co workers. We were loaded and shooting the breeze when one of them says "I'm so f*cked up that I'm not going to remember a thing in the morning. We both agreed and laughed. I said "Good, so how about you both take turns bl*wing me??. Long story short..after a few more beers we three crashed at one of the coworker's apartments who lived within walking distance. All three of us ended up having sex that night. The next day no one mentions a thing about what happened.I guess my questions is, do you think that these str8 guys REALLY don't remember due to the alcohol or are they just keeping mum about it. All I know is that I remember bits and pieces from that night.
2006-09-11 06:11:24 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
They remember...but leave it alone. This could get very sticky (no pun intended) at the workplace
2006-09-11 06:14:30 · answer #1 · answered by P. C 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-26 01:16:28 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They remember what happened. They just don't want to bring it up first. You should be careful about doing things like this when your drunk. There are so many things that could have happened and there are so many diseases out there. Even if it is from oral sex. You should always be careful when doing things like this at work because you don't know if someone will slip up and open their mouth about what happend. Next time don't let the drinks do the talking in the end. It could cost you in the long run.
2006-09-11 06:17:15 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I know that I've been totally wasted to the point that I don't even remember what happened...However, I'm sure they know atleast if they kissed each other or something...If they are totally straight I don't by it...Most straight men NO MATTER how wasted would mess around with another male. I'd presume that they are pretending they don't remember because they are humiliated.
2006-09-11 06:14:59 · answer #4 · answered by BLoNdE22 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
They remember but are too macho to talk about it. I mean what are they going to say "Hey man had a good time the other night!"
Don't look for it. Just remember the night for what it was...a good memory.
2006-09-11 06:17:34 · answer #5 · answered by Stiletto ♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea the similar thing happened to me with my best girl friend and i wondered if she was just blocking it out of her mind and pretending like she didn't remember it... cuz i had more to drink then her and i remembered bits and pieces so i know she must remember it...
2006-09-11 06:17:05 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
They remember but it's better for all to keep it hush hush.
2006-09-11 06:16:35 · answer #7 · answered by Sara_V. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hell yes they remember. they are probably keeping mum but they remember.
2006-09-11 06:15:58 · answer #8 · answered by katz 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
are you sure it was all..
2006-09-11 06:17:09 · answer #9 · answered by Max 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
uh huh...weird...i dunno they prolly do remember though...
2006-09-11 06:14:50 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋