My guy is half Puerto Rican and Cuban which probably doesn't matter, but I am black. I've never dated outside of my race and I have heard alot of horror stories about men in his culture. He has been almost perfect in every way until these last couple of weekends. He hasn't called me as much and he hasn't been answering all of my calls or returning them. He says that I have no reason to be angry because he would not cheat on me, but I don't know what to think. I do believe that he is sincere, but this has happened for 2 weekends in a row and he didn't go home either. He says that he's been with his friends, brother etc.. speaking spanish drinking..I don't know what to think.
2006-09-11 06:06:18 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if he's french, you'll never know...
if he's english... you'll find out really quick!
LOL!!
2006-09-11 06:08:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
yeah ur right, races doesn't have anything to do with it cause most men cheat.. dont' feed into the stereotype though, cause if u r then why did u get w/him....
let him know that if he gonna keep having these disappearing acts, and not return ur calls then u and him can nolonger be together.. let him know in a relationship communication is key and it's obvious u and him don't have it, well lately anyway....
u shouldn't have to be looking for him, but he could at least keep u posted if he gonna be on the run or dipping and dodging w/his friend for the weekend... it's common courtesy...........
2006-09-11 13:10:34 · answer #2 · answered by Queen D 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's found someone else. And even if it isn't someone else and he is actually hanging out with his friends then he's lost interest in you because he'd rather not hang out with you. So either way, don't call him and don't ask him questions and either he'll come around or it'll just fade away and then you'll have your answer - he didn't want to be with you anymore.
I know the suspense and wondering will drive you crazy but busy yourself with your own friends and have a good time with out him, men love independent women.
2006-09-11 13:13:23 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's messing around on you, sorry but it just sounds too much like other women who have complained about their men and were willing to just look the other way...my advice, break it off and find someone that will respond to you whenever you call or page at least.
good luck! oh, and by the way. NOT all men of this nationality are that way, so don't' judge all men by this yahoo's actions!
2006-09-11 13:11:09 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If u love ur guy take care of him with the best u can. do not listen to gossiping coz not all are happy with ur relationship some are jealous of u so they want u off that position. handle him like a real woman am do things to him that other woman can hardly do. then u will always be his queen and he wont think of no other than u. u should be thinking of the solution to ur problem not thing to wosting the situation.
2006-09-11 13:31:20 · answer #5 · answered by Peace G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well unless he gives you any reason not to believe him then don't judge him. But if he tells you where he is at and you want to check up on him but if he isn't doing anything then he might get upset that you don't trust him which it sounds like you don't. Don't stereotype him for his culture and ethnic background though. Is there something that he might want that he isn't getting that you think he might be cheating on you might be where you want to look first
2006-09-11 13:09:57 · answer #6 · answered by dmxdragon2 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think race matters. A person is faithful or not. Just remember, he should be thinking of you as much as you think of him. if he doesn't call you then he doesn't want to . Believe what your head tells you, not what your heart wants to believe
2006-09-11 13:10:35 · answer #7 · answered by cheryle222 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think if your questioning it, than part of you already knows. First off it is disrespectful to you, to ignore you. And inconsiderate of him to not invite you or give you an explanation. I think you need to really examine your relationship. I don't think this has anything at all to do with your cultural differences.
2006-09-11 13:11:44 · answer #8 · answered by loladoreen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
rumours are just that, rumours. all you can do is trust your man and if you find solid proof then by all means tear his *** apart but if you go snooping around and he is not cheating then you will lose his respect, his trust and most of all him. give him the benefit of the doubt. you might be worried but do not ask to often and do not show it.
be careful.
2006-09-11 13:14:11 · answer #9 · answered by katz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So he's latino. Most of my friends are latino and some - not all - latino men are not faithful. Sorry about that. He's just not that into you if he can called you as much as he used to.
2006-09-11 13:12:21 · answer #10 · answered by Nije L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats how you know he's cheating cause he changed up his routine! Dead give away! Guys are so obvious, regardless of their race.
2006-09-11 13:10:43 · answer #11 · answered by superbad~honeydip 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋