the reason I ask is, my gf and I were having some really good sex in the shower night before last and when I started to rub her anus she seemed to really like it A LOT! she came while I was doing it but I'm not sure if that was why, because it seemed like as soon as I started to rub it she was moaning and really getting into it. so do you think I should try actually putting it in this time or should i stick to just massaging it? and if I should put it in how deep and which finger should I use? oh and if there are any "secrets" or techniques i should know about to make it better for her fill me in on it! THANKS LADIES!!!
2006-09-11 06:06:16 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Go SLOW! Nobody likes a full-on attack in the rear. Try licking her first and really get her into the action. Once she's turned on enough, anything goes. Just use lots of lube and be as relaxed and spontaneous as you can about it. Don't stop what you're doing and ask her permission to finger her. Just do it. As far as fingers go, start small and work your way up.....Hope you get to enjoy some back-door sex. It can be really good or awful depending on the circumstances. Be sure she's into it before you try. Just ask- "do you like that?" and when you get an affirmative answer- keep going. Good luck and good sex to you!
2006-09-11 06:12:56 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Better ask her before putting it in!
Fingering of the anus is commonly practiced in preparation of further anal sex, such as inserting the penis or a dildo (possibly a strap-on dildo),also a pickle or a banana works in the act as well, to widen the entry point and prepare the receiver. Some practicers thus consider it foreplay, whilst others use it as a full sex act on its own. It is a common practice among homosexual men, though it is far from exclusive to them.
Anal fingering is an effective way of stimulating the prostate gland of men, and thus bringing the receiver to sexual climax. In fact, because of the flexibility and relative maneuverability of the fingers it is sometimes considered superior to a penis in this capacity.
2006-09-11 06:09:06 · answer #2 · answered by Sara_V. 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
In all honesty, just ask her! If she seems up for it, slowly insert your pointer finger a little at a time. As she gets more comfortable insert another. Always go slow and use lube.
2006-09-11 06:09:52 · answer #3 · answered by AsianPersuasion :) 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Go ahead and try, but use some Ky Jelly. That will make it more comfortable and pleasurable for her. I would talk to her about it and see if she is into it. Have fun
2006-09-11 06:13:55 · answer #4 · answered by drubaby32698 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Index finger or try your tongue next time, an inch to an inch and a half will do the trick, she loves it so just do it, ohhhh, and you might like it to, let her give it a try on you.
2006-09-11 06:17:04 · answer #5 · answered by DivaByNature,B*tchByChoice 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Keep rubbin till the time is right. then before she comes only go in till the 1st knuckle. she'll explode!
2006-09-11 06:11:13 · answer #6 · answered by SCHMUCKY 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Lots of lube, and you are good to go. She will direct you from there.
2006-09-11 06:09:00 · answer #7 · answered by Simply Lovely 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If thats how she is acting then i say give it to her. Maybe its her way of telling you she loves it so go for it.....
2006-09-11 06:08:50 · answer #8 · answered by deborah_012003 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
try a little at a time, but if she says to stop STOP
2006-09-11 06:09:07 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
just ask her what she wants when you are in the heat of the moment.
2006-09-11 06:08:55 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋