I asked my boyfriend if he is cheating on me and he is telling me that he isnt........ But then i started to not believe him because his x-girlfriend called my house tryin to start stuff........ plus i went into his email and he told her that she is his future wife........ but he is telling me that his sister sent that cuz she and his x-girlfriend are best friend......... wat am i suppose to believe?
2006-09-11 06:02:23 · 11 answers · asked by Bubbles 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
smell his cokc to see if it smells fishy like his ex
2006-09-11 06:05:07 · answer #1 · answered by 10 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Ok, I would try my best to be straight up with him in a sweet kind of way like "hey, honey, you know i still like you but I dont want to be in an unfaithful relationship. And its alright if you want your ex because I know it is sometimes hard to get over an ex so just tell me the truth though, and Its not that I may be paranoid or something, I just think we need truth from one another and it will make our lives much better. And if you do still want her, we can go our seperte ways, I'm fine by that. But I just dont want you to lie to me, and if I find out whats happening from someone else, and we were supposed to have a trust with each other, I don't think I will be able to forgive you, and also every girl will know about your unfaithfull @ ss and you wont believe you or want you. So what is it honey? Are you cheating on me or not?"
2006-09-11 06:30:32 · answer #2 · answered by 2cute4u 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you have to be on an open forum asking this question, he is cheating. Believe your intuition, when you have to keep discussing these things, that is your inner voice telling you to get out of the relationship. Women have incredible self awareness, and you are being warned. If you have to be sneaking around checking his email, you need to move on.
2006-09-11 06:08:48 · answer #3 · answered by Sue F 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First u got to get ur information. See if his siser really sent the messages. And if she admitt that she did it that he is not cheating. If she say she didnt do it that u need to dump that loser, and find u someone that wants to be you and make u there future wife.
2006-09-11 06:53:58 · answer #4 · answered by thickjuicey2007 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Girl watch out!!! Go with your gut feeling. If you feel something is going on...most likely it is. If I were you I wouldnt belive him or his ex-psycho. I would look at both stories. Most of the times the ex lies and even your BF. I'm with my fiancee since 2003 and the ex-psycho still has the nerve to call and start drama, but I dont let it get to me anymore since she's not happy with herself. Feel free to email me.
2006-09-11 06:09:25 · answer #5 · answered by ♪♫♫♪ 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well no man is gonna honestly tell u he's cheating unless he is really really feeling guilty.. so it's a 50/50.. if he hasn't given u a reason to cheat then have faith until those reasons appear..
2nd don't go looking for things that ur not ready to see.. especially if ur not gonna do anything about them.. u need to stop checking his email.. if u got his password then maybe his sis does to...
3rd if u don't believe him then just ask the ex what it is?? just let her know that ur not even tryna get played and that if they got something going on then u got a right to know and that then u gonna drop him like a bad habit...
4th u need to let him know if he wants u then he better continue to act right if he ain't cheating and to tell his sis to fall back...
2006-09-11 06:06:55 · answer #6 · answered by Queen D 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
believe your intuition. plus a man aint gonna tell you "yes i am cheating". if the signs are there then he probably is.
2006-09-11 06:10:33 · answer #7 · answered by MiaDiva28 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
oh he is cheated dump him and check his phone without him knowing and i;m sure of it that he call his ex and other girls
2006-09-11 06:09:14 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If the glove don't fit, you must a quit. Get evidence first, then dump his @ss!!
2006-09-11 06:06:33 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
ugghh if he said that in his email to her about her being his future wife and you still want to be with him--you need to get some therapy--
2006-09-11 06:05:39 · answer #10 · answered by keepingthefaith 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋