Hey, I want to get closer to my best friend. I'm guessing I'v been holding back because there were rumers about the two of us (we are 15) but, I dont care anymore. I dont even know why, but I feel like I should be making more contact with her, if that makes sence (maybe I'm a psychopathic pervert, lol) I just think I should be, we can tell each other everything and this is all that is missing, just a hug or and arm round the shoulder now and then, what should I do? How should I go about doing this?
2006-09-11 05:42:00 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think you should talk to her and ask her would it be possible if the two of you ever started going out. Try to make a joke out of it like oh wouldn't it be funny if we both ended up getting married? and see what her response is to that? If she takes it in a good way then tell her how you feel and how she feels about you. Good Luck!!!!!
2006-09-11 05:45:42 · answer #1 · answered by Lu-Lu - hopelessly romantic 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
the fact that she and her feel comfortable telling each other everything is definetely a good sign,
I'm 27 when i was your age there was those type of rumors when i was your age, If i had to go bak and do it again, I wouldn't let stupid other peoples opinions get in the way.
At your age ya just gotta say( by the way do you got her phone number. if not get it. THen work your way into telling her that you like her and you want to start going out with her.
2006-09-11 12:50:09 · answer #2 · answered by the d 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At the tender age of 15 is your "pervertedness" worth going to jail over ?
2006-09-11 12:45:55 · answer #3 · answered by tatslady2 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's easy, write her a note and ask her to check yes or no. lol. Not really just ask her if she would like to go to a movie or hang out and make a little move on her, she will let you know if that's acceptable or not. Good Luck
2006-09-11 12:45:07 · answer #4 · answered by VeeateU 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
dude you are just going to have to take a chance or you would hate yourself forever. talk to her about how you feel maybe she feel the same way about you but is scared, there is not easy way to do it but you should get her alone and try not to show how nervous you are or things might come out wrong.
good luck.
2006-09-11 12:48:22 · answer #5 · answered by katz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not ruin the freindship with things you are both uncomfortable doing. You need to become best friends and then maybe ask her if it is ok to take it to another level do not rush it. Good luck.
2006-09-11 12:45:51 · answer #6 · answered by red1967 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
if she is your best friend then you will know how to approach the subject.... but do tell her how you feel... if she is single then you may end up being the perfect couple......sounds like you both get on really well.....you may be frightened of rejection and then ending up not even friends but she will understand...the question is ....DO YOU THINK IT IS WORTH IT ?
2006-09-11 12:48:02 · answer #7 · answered by donnarose444 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to find out where her head is. Smply asking, "What do you think about these rumors," then trust yourself to respond in a confident wy to anything she says as a reply.
2006-09-11 12:45:11 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You need to talk to her about this. Exactly what you said to us...how you should do it, I dont know. Are you close enough to stop by her house? Is there a place that you know she does where you can bump into her (outside of school)?
2006-09-11 12:44:38 · answer #9 · answered by TroubleRose 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Do whatever feels natural dont force it (are you a girl too?)
2006-09-11 12:45:13 · answer #10 · answered by superbad~honeydip 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋