When i was 7 my mum met a man and he bacame my step-dad since i didn't knew my real dad. Now im 18 and i sometimes wonder who was my real father, who are my cousins, my grandparents, where are they now, what do they do. I think about all this till i go crazy and start to drink alcohol and do other drugs. What can i do? Why do i have this questions? How can i get
away from them?
2006-09-11 05:22:45 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
I somewhat understand your situation. My Nephew is going through the same thing pretty much. He is 20. He grew up without a father at all. We have tried to find out from his mother who his father is and having gotten any info. He is now in Job Corps. All he has pretty much has is His uncle and myself. He has pretty much accepted the fact he will probably never meet his other family. (On his fathers side) But he is now moving on and trying to better himself. I wish him the best. And you also. Good luck, Hope you have a good life.
2006-09-11 05:48:24 · answer #1 · answered by angeleloves 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would start by asking your Mother and Father. Do you have a copy of your original birth certificate? If not, I would contact the appropriate office in the city/county you were born and get one. Your Mother will probably be happy to help you, if not, maybe you can ask other relatives like Aunts and Uncles? Don't let this make you crazy and stay away from the alcohol/drugs for now because they only intensify your feelings and will actually make you feel worse in the end, the contented feeling they produce in the beginning only last for a few minutes, the bad feeling will last for days....I hope this helps. processor_diamantemortgage@yahoo.com
2006-09-11 12:40:20 · answer #2 · answered by processor_diamantemortgage 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask your mother for your father's name and try to find him.
2006-09-11 12:30:08 · answer #3 · answered by AzOasis8 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋