This guy i like uses to wear lot of rings and so, but where we live is not good seen to wear so many, so his cousin told him and he just left one, the ring was a present from his ex gf.
When i asked if he still was in love with her he said in love?? no!! it was just a big crush. From what i know, they dated for 3 years, at high school. so dont know cos now he is 23, although he says she is her best friend, when i asked if he was going to see her he said no, if she is not in the city im.
Do you think he still love her...???
2006-09-11 05:17:52 · 19 answers · asked by alex 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
look, everybody has someone they want to be with but cant. eventually he will be completely comfortable with that. in the meantime, let him wean himself with a ring.
2006-09-11 05:20:46 · answer #1 · answered by bad kitty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the point is...Do YOU feel he still loves her? Let's be truthful here, we women have a sixth sense about these things, if there is even the tiniest suspicion on your part the best thing to do is tell him that it bothers you that he chose to keep that ring in particular and that weird as it may seem it makes you think that he still has feelings for this girl. Watch his reactions carefully, maybe he just likes the ring too much to part with it, but if he likes you more than the ring he will find some other thing to wear. Set things straight from the start, and you will have no future problems, as for the best friend part, it has been my experience that once a guy has a girlfriend the girlfriend start being his best friend too as time goes by, so don't worry but be firm about this.
2006-09-11 05:24:17 · answer #2 · answered by White 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats a very hard question and by asking everyone else I believe you know the answer if he is still wearing her ring. He has to let go to be able to love another and I don't think he has let go of all of her.
2006-09-11 05:27:42 · answer #3 · answered by Redneck Girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I cant say if he still loves her because I dont know the whole story...but I can tell you he most likely has feelings for his ex. From my own experience my fiancee when I first met him just broke up with his ex of 8yrs...not to mention they were high school sweethearts!!! He was 23 at the time...so I know where your comming from. Men try to act tough as they are over it, but sometimes "actions speak louder than words". Be careful and keep your guard up. Feel free to email me.
2006-09-11 05:26:55 · answer #4 · answered by ♪♫♫♪ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the ring is just a memory of what was. So i don't think you should believe he is still in love with her. Some people - if mature enough - will just hold on to a memory of what was, and not destroy what they have. Make sense? Just have faith that he doesn't want her, but just remembers her.
2006-09-11 06:02:29 · answer #5 · answered by Nije L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it was highschool and he is now 23 he is probably right it was just a crush. I believe he would be with her and not you if he did. If you care enough for him just let it go for what he said it is. Believe in him. A man that is accused of being unfaithful for too long even in their heart they will start to think why not play the game if she is giving me the name. Be careful
2006-09-11 05:22:22 · answer #6 · answered by jusme 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like hes having trouble letting go. But wearing the ring is disrespectful to you. Its not like he was married and his wife of 10 yrs just died...
2006-09-11 05:23:15 · answer #7 · answered by JC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's always going to love her, but like he said he is not in love with her. you can't expect someone to not still love there ex when they were together so long, there is always going to be love there for her especially if it was his first love, that doesn't mean he can't love you though. i wouldn't worry too much about it and stop asking him about it, you will just push him away. good luck sweetie.
2006-09-11 05:21:50 · answer #8 · answered by puppy love 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he still misses her and has a sentimental attachement to the ring to remind him of the good times they had together
2006-09-11 05:21:43 · answer #9 · answered by maconheira 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He will probably love her for the rest of his life .... in some way
2006-09-11 05:20:27 · answer #10 · answered by Bobbo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋