i kinda of just met this guy n we both claim to have fallen for each other the same way ... but his job is calling him back to india in about a week n i really don't know what to do ... we both r real upset about this n he says we'll keep in contact n he'll b able to visit me once in a while ... i don't know what to do .. it's not his fault im hurt .....
how do i dull the pain?
n plz PLZ no mean/sarcastic answers ... im hurt enough ....
2006-09-11 05:10:01 · 12 answers · asked by starxxgirl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
thank u u guys .. i know it's stupid to fall for a guy that fast ... but i couldn't help it ... thank u again ... it means a lot to me
2006-09-11 05:35:37 · update #1
Enjoy the moment and the days you guys have left. After he leaves you can either decide to continue the relationship from a distance or end it, but for now just try to think about today and don't concentrate on the fact that he is going away, because you are both torturing yourselves and not enjoying each other. Good luck!
2006-09-11 05:14:40 · answer #1 · answered by White 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time is a good healer. Start where you left off. Where were you when you weren't with this person? Try to keep yourself busy working or doing stuff around the house. Getting your mind off it is the best thing. Enjoy yourself start doing the things you enjoy. Start a project you have been keeping off. Go out with friends and let them help you get through this. I know it's tuff but it's not the end of the world. Just think of it this way. There is less fortunate people out there then you. Your not the only one with a broken heart. Good luck!
2006-09-11 05:19:50 · answer #2 · answered by aimstir31 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not being sarcastic, but if you are feeling all this "pain" over a guy you "kinda just met" ... well, something is really wrong.
Getting attached too fast is an issue that needs to be professionally addressed or else you are in for a lifetime of unnecessary self-induced pain.
Do you really want to live like that?
2006-09-11 05:14:37 · answer #3 · answered by BoomChikkaBoom 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well I think you should be positive as long as you can. keep in touch with him and see how it goes. You cannot start being negative now. If it was meant to be ..it will come back and if it's not it will fade away. You say you both love each other. So if you live here. it's possible that you can bring him here right? keep in touch with him and see what happens. YOu'll be surprised. He may not be able to go on without you.
2006-09-11 05:16:26 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
well,its really sad but then you have to accept the fact that he has to go....try working out by keeping him there or you moving with him or else just give yourself sometime,you'll be better after a week or so and things will fall in place...you cant stop living right,just help yourself feel better!!take up some sport that'll help you build your self confidence and will keep you energized!!then see how it works for you!!good luck!!
2006-09-11 05:17:32 · answer #5 · answered by country_girl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U need to move out from your emotional mode..i noe dat it hurts to distance from your loved one...but, you must not let that disturb u and affect u...i noe that it takes time...but you gotta try... occupy your time by doing something that you like very much...maybe watching a comedy would help...don't listen to anything that can trigger your memories being with him...make him promise that he'll keep in touch with you...maybe that would make you feel better...i hope this will help...don't worry too much, okay? take care and god bless!
2006-09-11 05:17:38 · answer #6 · answered by cuteangel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
long distance relatioship is really hard coz it happens to me. but if you have trust in your guy and if you believe him there's nothing to worry so much! just don't loose contact with him and always keep in touch! there's a lot of way to do that. call him everyday or email with him aor chat with him everyday. then if you'll have time visit him in his jobsite. show him that your going to have an effort, that your going to make your relationship work even if you're miles apart!!!! you can do it honey!!!
2006-09-11 05:18:27 · answer #7 · answered by honeyko_japan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only time can heal this pain.
Keep in touch with him via email, letters, etc. Its always nice to have a friend. And you never know, he may return!
2006-09-11 05:12:56 · answer #8 · answered by NyceGyrl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know how it feels . what u can do is that u can fall in other relationship or make ur self busy for other things. u can mail me and i live in india too. my id is jaishankar994@gmail.com
2006-09-11 05:15:26 · answer #9 · answered by jaishankar4202002 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's something only time can heal. Always
2006-09-11 05:11:49 · answer #10 · answered by jazzmetalbassist 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋