my old phone broke and my new guy gave me his old phone,on his old phone was a picture of himself and his ex having sex. I didnt say anything about this to him, but last night a friend of his went through his phone to see what pictures he still had on the phone and obviously saw the picture of my bf and his ex....when my bf looked at the picture on his old phone he said i know it was there.... His friend said do you want me to erase it and my bf said "NO WAY"!!!! he then laughed and sat down beside me! What do you think!
2006-09-11 05:06:59 · 54 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I say he likes it because it's crazy not because he still likes her.What I would do have sex and video tape it and take pix w/cell hone so he can have your pix and video.. note: u keep the video lol.
2006-09-11 05:10:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
That is absolutely so rude for him to still have that on there. You need to let him know that you feel uncomfortable with that still on there and that he needs to delete it! There's no reason that should still be on his phone ESPECIALLY him and her having sex. My ex bf had pictures of his ex gf all over his house still and for some reason he didn't think that was RUDE when it's VERY disrespectful!!! Guys need to realize that when an ex becomes an ex MOVE ON and dont be leaving pictures and stuff out where the new girl can see it and feel uncomfortable. And men wonder why girls are untrusting? lol!
2006-09-11 05:30:16 · answer #2 · answered by BLoNdE22 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well your bf probably only acted like that when the pic came up because his friend was there. You know how guys have to act cool around one another. It is your phone now so I would erase it. Remember if your guy wanted to be with that girl - he would be. She is in his past and he is with you now. I know it isn't easy to see that but you have a past and so does he. Try not to think about it or it will cause tension in your relationship. You don't want that! Good Luck with the new relationship!
2006-09-11 05:12:58 · answer #3 · answered by Stiletto ♥ 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
really wouldnt stress about it
you would have known that he had sex before you...... not nice to see it i guess but he wasnt exactly hiding it from you
the only thing i would say is if you dont want the picture on your phone then erase it.
he sounds like he's trying to be a bit of a big man in front of the lads....... it also sounds like its a bit of fun that doesnt mean too much to him.
either way its your phone so erase it and forget about it
i really wouldnt get upset with him about it....... thats just an unnecessary fight
just be assertive and do what you want
2006-09-11 05:13:18 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I've been there before. By babies daddy had a picture of his ex naked and I found it and tore it up. I feel that when a man or woman has naked pictures or pictures of them having sex is offensive to the new person. That person apparently haven't let that other person go. Ask him if it's the picture or you and see what he says, if he says you then you know where he stands.And make sure that he destroys it.
2006-09-11 05:12:57 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should ask him to erase it. You know he has ex's so you can get mad about that but theres no reason to have a picture like that still around and for people to see.
2006-09-11 05:10:47 · answer #6 · answered by stigma138 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's disrespectful and doesn't care too much about you seeing it otherwise he would have apologized and erased it. That should have been the end of it but now by his actions he has let it become an issue for the two of you whether you want to admit it or not. good luck and get out while u can.
2006-09-11 05:10:45 · answer #7 · answered by micaelagatewood 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hey - he gave you the phone, now its yours. You should not have to put up with that nonsense.... either have him download to somewhere else, or delete it ( accidently ).
Also - he seems to be in the habit of taking photos ( videos ) of himself and whomever his girlfriend is at the time, having sex...
how do you feel about being photographed and videotaped?
2006-09-11 05:11:41 · answer #8 · answered by robertta g 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie,it sounds like he apparently enjoys that type of thing.but i would not care for it myself.I would let him know hoe u feel and go from there if he can't respect your feelings and understand u don't care for him to keep old pic of his ex at specially of them having sex then maybe u need to find someone that is a little less self center and cares about u and your feelings.
2006-09-11 05:10:57 · answer #9 · answered by motherof319662000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you heard him!!! Now what about his actions do you not understand?
Get the H*** out of this guy's life. He is a loser if he needs this sex pic.
Delete it for him.
He shouldn't have given you the phone if he wanted to keep his memior.
2006-09-11 05:13:21 · answer #10 · answered by lofolulu 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like you're dating a possible jerk. he is either keeping it for revenge at a later date, to show off to his friends, or cuz he still likes her. otherwise he can get all kinds of free porn on the net. and obviously you dont feel secure in this relationship or you wouldnt need to ask about it. therefore you're down to either he aint the guy for you, or he's just an *** :) and youll live unhappily ever after.
2006-09-11 05:10:34 · answer #11 · answered by lilmissinsanity 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋