2006-09-11 04:45:24 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Life moves on. I'll bet if you surveyed 100 people, they could all remember their first love but the past is the past and it's not healthy to try and live in the past.
2006-09-11 04:50:49 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well to be honest when we broke up I was 20 at the time and it took me 5 years to get over it. I had lots of other boyfriends and had plenty of friends, parties, and school to keep me occupied but I still always thought of him.
I had been with my current fiance for 3 months at the time that I was randomly hanging out with my ex (we ran into eachother at a bar) and I just looked at him and felt it, I knew I didnt love him anymore and it was the best feeling. Of course that night he tells me he wants to get back together but I said no, good thing I did cause now I'm getting married. It's going to take you a long time and I don't know if you really get over someone until you meet someone new (someone you care about equally to the way you felt about him or more). I know it's a horrible pain in your heart and a ball in your stomach, but you will get through it, it's gonna take time and feels like it will never end but it will eventually. Best of luck to you.
2006-09-11 11:51:36 · answer #2 · answered by Jersey Style 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You never really get past your first love. In time, the memory will fade and the heartache will become blip on your screen. In the interim, find some cherised friends and get yourself some retail therapy - essentially, do what makes you feel good. Whatever you do, don't languish in pain for too long. Although it sounds corny - time does heal all wounds...at least until the next time you get yourself dumped.
2006-09-11 11:51:06 · answer #3 · answered by tallblackchick 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time is a healer. Remove all reminders you have of him. I just did this myself. I had a lot of little reminders of him in my environment. Find a new interest. Start flirting to let you know you are still desirable. I fell in love with a person who was not available -- my bad. I think it will take time, sweetie. It has for me.
2006-09-11 11:52:13 · answer #4 · answered by Mars 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i admit it took a while but once u get with someone else that u kno will treat u 100% better u forget that person quick
2006-09-11 11:47:08 · answer #5 · answered by Victoria 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
honestly? you dont. my FIRST love is STILL in my head and im engaged. horrible isnt it? but jsut sort of play the field, keep your self entertained do stuff that doesnt remind you of him. that helped alot for me
2006-09-11 11:48:27 · answer #6 · answered by jeannerr k 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time will do it. Keep yourself busy in the meantime. Good Luck!
2006-09-11 11:48:33 · answer #7 · answered by grudgrime 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell yourself it wasnt really love
2006-09-11 11:48:14 · answer #8 · answered by viki c 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I heard that will not be possible for women.
2006-09-11 11:49:22 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u grow old
2006-09-11 11:47:15 · answer #10 · answered by EMMA 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋