I have several Muslems at my work and they have this arrangment. Man , you should see the pigs they got stuck with ..lol..no wonder they screw around on their wives. But also their is a Punjabi girl at my work..mmm if she was single I'd be getting to know her and her guy is an ugly idiot..
2006-09-11 04:19:48 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
I'm a Hindu living in south africa, and have fair parents, and they do not expect me to undergo such a thing as an arranged marriage. yet if i was living in India or any other place, with my parents being brought up differently, i might not be in college right now, studying towards my degree, but married with kids. so, i think that this arranged marriage thing is bull, because it puts you in spot you cannot get out off. you are stuck with a stranger, ecpected to bear hos babies, and should you ever want a divorce, it is seen as immoral in terms of society, and your parents would never accept. since there is no love involved between the couple, they do wind up cheating on each other sooner or later, and is that not more immoral??? you should fall in love naturally, i say, and should you experience problems, get a divorce, or a separation at least. my best friend is going to be maried arranged soon after she gets her degree, yet she is in love with someone else, where is the logic??? her heart is going to broken all over the place, and the result is only going to be four unhappy people.. her, her boyfriend, and their new partners
2006-09-11 04:31:50 · answer #1 · answered by abstract 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
People say that their great grand parents' marriages were arranged and it worked out well. Some may have worked out well but consider, long ago, domestic violence was not an issue. It was socially acceptable for men to beat their wives in some cultures. Long ago, women were uneducated and had to stay with their husbands for survival. I don't advocate arranged marriages now. It takes years to know a person's true colours. If they know you for a short while, they will only show their good side. It's human nature. It takes years to find out if someone will stick with you through good times and bad.
2006-09-11 12:02:44 · answer #2 · answered by Hema 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well i dont think its any of ur business who they got stuck with what are u some kind of marriage councilor? if the couple are happy then of course arranged marriages are good if they are not well then thats not good and u r just sum kind of sick pervert stop worrying about the world and get urself ur OWN girl instead of running after desperate housewives cuz they r the ono things u can probably get..GET A LIFE AND set urself some standards
AND FOR ALL YOU PATHETIC IGNORANT EXTREMELY STUPID PEOPLE OUT THERE ARRANGED MARRIAGES HAVE NOTHING WHATSOEVER TO DO WITH ANY RELIGION U IDIOTS
2006-09-11 11:25:27 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I have known arraged marriages that are successful. They keep on saying how lucky they are. Just depends.
2006-09-11 11:24:50 · answer #4 · answered by mom_of_ndm 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
i dont agree with it but that is MY personal opinion... it doesnt make it wrong or right it is part of some peoples religious beliefs and we do not have the power to tell people that they are wrong!
2006-09-11 11:23:48 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
arranged mariages are the stupidest idea since.........the goverment, ie pretty crap, i hate the whole thing, their religion is seriously sexist too and they think all guys are pervs, so what more can you expect really?
2006-09-11 11:26:21 · answer #6 · answered by viki c 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
It's not for me, but then I think you have to respect other cultures.
2006-09-11 11:25:32 · answer #7 · answered by Yvonne D 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe they work better?
2006-09-11 11:22:09 · answer #8 · answered by RB 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋