Theres this new girl who i am training as she just started working with us. Thing is she is quite pretty and well friendly, and everytime she looks at me i smile. She is going to be our Team Leader upon finishing her training. Do you think i should make move?? and how long should i wait?
2006-09-11 04:17:15 · 28 answers · asked by frankie 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No way. Don't mix money with honey. It tends to get you into a very sticky situation.
2006-09-11 04:18:31 · answer #1 · answered by aimstir31 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be an old slapper, get to know the poor girl ( as a person ). Not just a shag piece. You might make a lovely couple, but don't do the typical bloke thing, by trying to get into her pants. We're not all that easy. Friendship first, WILL go a long way. BEHAVE & BE LUCKY
2006-09-11 04:26:35 · answer #2 · answered by tildypops 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make a move now. If you make it out with her and she becomes your team leader then in the morning she'll be on top of you and at night you'll be on top of her. Good Luck for both of you.
2006-09-11 04:21:52 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should leave work at work !! If she rejects you then you have made your work place awkward. If you can not resist making a move you should at least wait to see if she shows some signs of interest.
2006-09-11 04:20:12 · answer #4 · answered by kathygd1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nope I wouldnt rush into things just yet. She could be smiling at you out of courtesy or just friendliness. leave it til shes settled into the company before you even contemplate making a move.
2006-09-11 04:31:40 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do it she will soon be your "team leader" which I think means that one day she will be your boss or at least over you. If you start to date her and something goes wrong then you may have to do all of the hard jobs that nobody else wants to do as punishment. If you hurt her you may have to answer with your job.
2006-09-11 04:25:52 · answer #6 · answered by DARKMAN97 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Wait...she is new to the workplace. She might just be friendly because she is nervous or trying to fit in. You are smiling at her: is she smiling back....and why? Be careful and don't scare her off.
2006-09-11 04:21:00 · answer #7 · answered by chattykatty 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start off goin for a friendly drink at dinner, get to know her a bit better and when you feel comfortable, ask her out on a date!
2006-09-11 04:19:16 · answer #8 · answered by Lou 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think its OK, but not rush take your time and feel comfortable and also make her feel comfortable as I suppose it not easy for her as its a new job and you are the one who is training her... and might be worry to say yes if she want to know you better.
2006-09-11 04:23:48 · answer #9 · answered by tenderpinklady 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Before you do anything I'd ask myself the following question:do I want a relationship with a co-worker?(even worse..your team-leader..)I mean...what is things go wrong between the two of you,are you capable of handling it and still see her every day?You think she will?If you think this will all turn out ok,then I'd say:go ahead and make your move...
2006-09-11 04:21:16 · answer #10 · answered by marjoleindnl 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If it feels right and the opportunity to make a move comes along then go for it.....at worse she can only say no. Be confident and stong.
2006-09-11 04:19:30 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋