this guy i am totally in love with n had been doin **** with him for a year got a girlfriend (NOT ME) three months ago. she was the real jelous type so i hardly ever got to talk to my love. but in the past week he had brought me home every night n talked. he said he was breaking up wit her n so he kinda hinted to me that he wanted to do **** that night. he said that technically he was still with his gf but in his mind he wasnt. so things went back to what it used to be between me n him, so then next day was when he was supposed to break up with his gf......so i asked him if he did n he said he didnt because he feels bad because the girl has some hard family issues. last night i hung out wit him n talked to him after we had done **** again n again he cheated no her. he said he really does not like her as a gf nemore. he said that we never went out bc he doesnt want to ruin things. he is DEF not the type of guy to cheat on a girl but he did with me. was it ok? what should i do? i love hm
2006-09-11 03:46:10 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if he did love you then it is without a doubt that you would have been his girlfriend instead of someone he just come and **** then go back to his recent girlfriend. I think he does care for you but not at the level where you are.
2006-09-11 03:57:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I feel for you. I understand that you love him but he is really using you.. He lied about break up with his GF to have sex with you again and again..and probably lied about that her family has issues ( how would you know if it real). and her problem is not yours..why should you pay the price of someone else. No, don't believe that he won't cheat with other girl.. Cheating give guy some excitement in his life..it is you this time..but could be other girls later. I think you should just let yourself heartbroken from loving him and leave him!! try to love your self more. I had been in your situation..It took him year later to leave his GF..after I became his GF, I found out he cheated on me with other..
2006-09-11 10:54:18 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to find a new guy. This sounds like he is telling you what you want to hear so that you stay around for sex. I could be wrong but I doubt it. You need seperate yourself from him before you get hurt. Honestly, if you were going at it for a year then why did he go get a girlfriend....answer, because he didn't want you as a girlfriend.
2006-09-11 10:54:57 · answer #3 · answered by not meant to be tamed 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like he's playing you. He knows you want him, and he's taking advantage of that. If you want him as a boyfriend (which I'd think very carefully about if I were you), make him dump his girlfriend before you do anything more with him. I know it's hard to do when you're attracted, but if you don't, you're just going to keep getting played and getting excuses.
2006-09-11 10:51:35 · answer #4 · answered by Chris S 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
>>he is DEF not the type of guy to cheat on a girl but he did with me.<<
You are fooling yourself. If you like the risk of russian roulette, stay with the guy, because he is a loaded gun.
2006-09-11 10:53:49 · answer #5 · answered by patweb01 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
guys are asswholes
cheaters are
going to hell
i wouldnt stay with him
becuase if he cheats on her than he will probably cheat on you
and that is if he ever breaks up with her
wich btw honey
he wont
until she catches him
dont give him a chance to do what my bf did to me
because trust me
it hurts
2006-09-11 10:52:54 · answer #6 · answered by x3holdaloverclose 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You knew him for a year and he has a new girlfriend of three months? Come on, he doesn't care for you obviously. Or else you would have been his girlfriend. Maybe he doens't like her, but he doesn't like you for sure.
2006-09-11 10:49:37 · answer #7 · answered by wondering 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
ok how bout ur a dumb as s.... he's using u for pu ssy... duh, he ain't leaving his gf, if he was then he'd be w/u and u wouldn't be asking him did u leave her yet.. if he doesnt' care for her then why is he worried bout her family problems??? ask urself that!! he is a whore and so r u!!! why would he leave his girl for u when he's fuc king u, without having anytype of obligation to u.. ur the SIDECHICK, the JUMP OFF, the DUMB AS S, that guys run to when they ain't getting none from their girls.. she's #1 and ur # 2....
stop fuc king him and find ur OWN MAN!
2006-09-11 10:59:20 · answer #8 · answered by Queen D 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your being played with my dear. Walk away while the getting is good. Look at it as a lesson learned.
2006-09-11 10:50:13 · answer #9 · answered by ? 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Leave him cus he is hurting you n her. He don't love you he just wants someone else to go to when his gf is not around. Think about it he only calls you when she is not with him. (Your his booty call) I'm pretty sure you deserve someone just for you.
2006-09-11 10:53:20 · answer #10 · answered by jtlee522 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋