I dated a guy and it became more and more clear that he was playing me. I took it for too long, finally left him and he is now 2 days later parading a girl in front of my house.
What makes a person vindictivly try to hurt someone that they claim to care about?
2006-09-11 03:44:31 · 13 answers · asked by I_am_me___ 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Not all men try to hurt their girlfriends. Just certain jerks that have nothing better to do and care too much about themselves. You'll find the right guy. You wouldn't wanna be wih someone like that ****** anyway.
It's his loss, he'll end up getting played and coming back to you. What comes around goes around. He'll get his. Just move on and find another guy, there's plenty of us out there.
2006-09-11 03:49:18 · answer #1 · answered by bad_dog76 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It's not just men, women to this stuff too. I don't know why people do the things they do. It sounds like an ego thing for this a$$whole. Just ignore him and be glad that you got out before you invested a lot of time in this prick. Just wait until he sees you with someone else. It's good kill him trust me. Good luck,keep your head up and move on. Mr.Right will come along one day. I know I am still waiting on his a**.
2006-09-11 10:50:40 · answer #2 · answered by drubaby32698 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is either 1 trying to make you jealous or 2 just an insensitive jerk.
Either way its better that you got rid of him. There are some people that are just uncaring and mean. Not all people are like that, and by leaving him you are giving yourself a chance to find that person.
2006-09-11 10:49:50 · answer #3 · answered by jam_psb 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He just wants to hurt you before you hurt him first. Guys take their pride seriously, don't play the same game. You are way better off without this guy. Just ignore him and he will eventually go away. Go have fun.
2006-09-11 10:48:46 · answer #4 · answered by vsecrets24 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Simply they did not care about them in the first place and is using another girl to hurt them because they are vindictive.
2006-09-11 10:47:34 · answer #5 · answered by omvg1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he has self-esteem and control issues. You're better off without him. And don't respond to him - he's likely trying to get a rise out of you, and if he does, it shows that he still controls your emotions.
2006-09-11 10:48:30 · answer #6 · answered by Chris S 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this guy who was dating my former friend was also trying to get my number.That guy was inconsiderate of my friend's feelings.The only reason why people would do that is that they don't really love or like the person they are with.
2006-09-11 10:49:37 · answer #7 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When people cannot cope or accept they act out. He's simply being a jerk -- ignore him --- like all irrations he'll eventually go away.
2006-09-11 10:49:04 · answer #8 · answered by cdnponygirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The word "men" does not belong in your question. Men...don't hurt their women.
2006-09-11 10:48:36 · answer #9 · answered by eastern_mountain_outdoors 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
um if he was playing u, then what made u think he cared bout u.. his behavior shouldn't be suprising.. it's obvious he's doing what makes him happy not u..
get over it and move on...
2006-09-11 10:47:52 · answer #10 · answered by Queen D 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋