my boyfriend came and stayed with me and my family for a week... we had been dating for one year already. hes done from college and im still in but i lack of 2 years only. i reallyy love him and he does too! he asked my mom if she could allow him marry me and my mom it was up to me (but she didnt answer in mean way)... my family is soo happy cuz hes soo good to me. his family loves me and wants me to go and stay with them. hes from usa and im from dominican. what can i do? i really love him and want a family with him (same thoughts from him, too)....
what would you do?
2006-09-11 03:31:39 · 12 answers · asked by *live,laugh,love* 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
I remember asking my girlfriend's mother and father to ask if give me a permission to married their daughter. they said yes but if I ever broken her heart again they will break my both legs and so with grandma too.. so good thing I asked becasue I don't want to ask my wfie to married me and then parents don't like me.. I want them to hear from and and what they have to say... so, then I took my wife to the park and asked her to married me when her family was there too smilling.
Now it will be 9 years in oct 31 2006... have 2 kids and third on the way. I think you should go for it and before you do talk about alot of things. do you ever cheated before and if yes would you do it again and how i know you won't.. and alot other things to talked about it.. yes you said yes we do much in love each other alot but you guys need to sit down and talk about do want to share bank together or not.. do you want to have kids if yes how many? if no, then if you do want it and he didn't then need to figure it out how to work it out... and talk about what if we got married but 5 months later we have plm and we not the same person before? so there alot to talk about this.
My wife and I talk before we got married yes still little plm not everyday but enjoy learning form eachother and so ... 9 years really long time and 3 kids shows a good family we are. smiling.
so talk about that you will be amazed to learn more about him and he learing about you..
2006-09-11 07:30:26 · answer #1 · answered by greenbaypackers1920 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Follow your heart, that is the best thing that you can do. Love is an incredible thing and it is so powerful. You will know when you have found the right person when there is no single doubt in your mind that this is the person for you. Do you have doubt? If you do wait things out and make sure that is really what you want. Your heart will tell you. I think that you do have some hesitance because you asked the question, i think you are feeling a bit insecure. Don't say yes, make it ok in your heart and head before you commite 100% to this guy....
2006-09-11 03:39:17 · answer #2 · answered by vsecrets24 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you love him I would say yes, but finish school first. A long engagement is a good thing. Just don't rush into anything. If it is a good idea now it will be a good two years from now. A year of dating is not really a long time. I have been w/ my bf for a year and a half and I am still really getting to know him. If he asked me I would say yes because I am in love w/ him,but I would make it a long engagement. I am happy for you. Good luck
2006-09-11 03:37:29 · answer #3 · answered by drubaby32698 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well first thought would be "yes, I'll marry you" but since your questioning it I think you have some thinking to do. yes you love him but theres something that's making you doubt this love.
Do you want to spend the rest of your life with him?
There are so many things that you need to put into consideration...and just cause he asks you to marry him, doesn't mean you're going to get married right away...
Good luck!
2006-09-11 03:36:19 · answer #4 · answered by Melia 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-26 01:04:00 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say that you need to follow your heart and do what will make you happy in the long run and for the rest of your life.
2006-09-11 03:36:25 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wait until you are done with school to get married. Just have a long engagement.
2006-09-11 03:55:55 · answer #7 · answered by Laura 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you love him, he loves you, your family loves him, and you both have the same goals in life, then say "yes"!
But, if you have to ask complete strangers for their opinions, then there must be something that's causing doubts. What is it?
2006-09-11 03:38:14 · answer #8 · answered by j_conway83 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If it was my boyfriend asked me to marry him I would say yes, let's do it tomorrow.
Make sure 100% you are ready to commit to this man forever
2006-09-11 03:50:02 · answer #9 · answered by sparkleythings_4you 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you love eachother, say Yes!
2006-09-11 03:46:45 · answer #10 · answered by jessigirl00781 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋