my ex wants me back, he won't call or visit my house but when he sees me down town he will catch up to me and ask me to come back to him and he has been e-mailing me daily, each e-mail getting more agitated then the last. We have had a lot of breaks and this isn't letting me heal, do you think he will ever realize what he has and be stable or will this cycle continue? Should I respond or just avoid?
Anyone have a situation like this they care to share?
2006-09-11 03:17:41 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
There's a reason he's your EX boyfriend. Therefore he should remain your EX boyfriend. Try and avoid him at all costs, he sounds a bit unstable to me. You don't need to be bothered like that anyway
2006-09-11 03:21:15 · answer #1 · answered by bad_dog76 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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If you don't change what you're doing, nothing will change. If you want to be with him, tell him. If he agrees, get back together, and work to stay together unless things get abusive.
If he is just annoying you, and you don't want to get back with him, tell him so and be firm. If you make this choice, stand firm with your decision and avoid him in everyway possible. If he goes where you have to be, tell him to leave you alone. If he doesn't listen to you, take legal action and get a restraining order against him.
Don't be wishy-washy or you will never get anywhere. Make a decision and move on -whichever way that is.
Limit the drama in your life. Have a good life.
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2006-09-11 10:49:33 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should tell him exactly how you feel, tell him(if he still has a chance) what it will take for you to even consider taking him back. Unless he seems willing that would be my last e-mail. You didn't mention why he doesn't want to come to your house? Do you have a restraining order on him??
2006-09-12 10:29:25 · answer #3 · answered by momie_2bee 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Avoid him...just fall off the face of this earth, this way he will eventually get over you and leave you alone. Don't call him or return his lame e-mails, because this will only inspire him to send more, and then he will think that you are starting to like him. So dont talk to him or initiat any form of comuniation ever again! Your welcome.
2006-09-11 10:21:57 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if the reason you split up was never resolved then the two of you have no reason to try to work it out ....then yes i would continue to ignore him ....and it is his problem not yours that he is an emotional wreck not yours it sounds like he has more going on than that and may need some kind of counseling or something
2006-09-11 10:29:46 · answer #5 · answered by fantasia91273 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Two Words......Restraining Order
2006-09-11 10:30:37 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should take as much time as you want to heal, and avoid him.
2006-09-11 10:23:41 · answer #7 · answered by Ellyn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Entice him with a lap dance and then tell him that you're going to blow him for old time's sake, then as soon as he unloads all over your slutt y face give me a call and then you can suck on my man meat because i can treat you right and hard and you'll probably gag on it but f uck you bitc h you're taking it all and the gallon of cu m that's coming with it. You s lut c um receptacle bitc h.
2006-09-11 10:21:48 · answer #8 · answered by A M 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
email him back tell him to stop emailing you becaus eyou need time and when you are ready you will talk to him. Tell him to wait for you and if he can be faithful you will come back when your wonds heal
2006-09-11 10:26:24 · answer #9 · answered by unkown 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Avoid. He has emotional problems and is immature to boot.
2006-09-11 10:20:25 · answer #10 · answered by Legandivori 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋