Met a Girl in Early July this year and we started going out, it was great at first we tried to go on proper dates i.e cinema but had to leave these places cuz we cudnt keep our hands off each other, then she said she wanted to see more of me so i started seeing her 3-4 times a week (during her break from college which finished last week) after a few weeks of that, she decided she wanted to see me less often? so im like huh? and wanted MORE from the relationship, i.e. romantic meals and walks in Sutton Park stuff like that, but the day she told me that she was proper distant with me, as if she felt guilty about something. As well as that ive never met her friends (although she tells me they know about me and that im her BF) yet she deosnt want to tell her workmates and is keen to hide it from then, her parents know me now, theyre nice. Shes also got a picture of 'her friend' on her phone who just happens to be male. It seems like she wants as little people as possible to know about me
2006-09-11 02:59:16 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sound like your the "other man". You should ask her about it. It might be eating her up inside and when you ask, it might just make things a little easier for her to tell you.
2006-09-11 03:03:12 · answer #1 · answered by jdecorse25 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She might be waiting until she is sure the relationship will work before she tells people. It avoids embarassment later. No one wants to deal with the questions of "What ever happened to so-and-so...he/she was so nice!" As for seeing you less often, she may really like you and just wants to have a traditional courtship for awhile to see if there is more there than just a physical relationship.
2006-09-11 03:04:05 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry, it doesn't sound good. I hope I'm wrong, for your sake, but sometimes it's the girl that is playing the field. It sounds like she's letting you into the safe part of her life, but not all of it. If a girl is really into you, she will usually want to spend more time with you, not less. And show you off, not hide you. Find out what's really going on here. Good luck.
2006-09-11 03:05:08 · answer #3 · answered by shynomore 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is someone else by far. This someone else doesn't want her though, that's why you are around. She wants to feel desired but has a crush on someone that seems to be showing her a little bit more interest, hence the "less time together," but doesn't want to be with her just yet. Dump the girl. She isn't into YOU. She's into someone else and is using you for attention right now.
2006-09-11 03:03:41 · answer #4 · answered by Tall Blonde Spaz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's running rings around you - she probably already has a boyfriend and he away on holiday or something. Don't let her get away with making a fool of you - find out if she has a boyfriend, stand up - be a man - and tell him how unfaithful his girlfriend has been and how many other guys were taken for a fool.
2006-09-11 03:03:50 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be cautious bro, women who try to hide your from friends are obviously trying to hide something. I'm not saying she's messing around on you, but I'd be cautious about her. Sounds a little funny to me.
On another note, she may like you but she also may be trying to figure out what she wants or who she wants. Women are tough to figure sometimes. Don't give up but proceed with caution.
2006-09-11 03:05:30 · answer #6 · answered by bad_dog76 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is playing you like a fiddle. Somewhere along the line you lost any power that you had. Stop hanging out with her, this might balance the power struggle. Or she may move on, if so she isn't worth the trouble.
2006-09-11 03:04:51 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-15 06:03:36 · answer #8 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like what is refered to as a Fu*ck Buddie, keep banging, until you find the right girl and then say addios~
2006-09-11 03:06:11 · answer #9 · answered by Michael 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So move on. You are not being taken advantage of any more than you let it happen. Let her come to you. A needy man is not attractive to women.
2006-09-11 03:03:21 · answer #10 · answered by Andre1998 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋