How do you do a lap dance? I've never seen it done so I have no idea how to do one myself- any ideas? I tried a google search and that didn't help much.
I don't want to look shy or nervous doing it either as I know he's had a couple of professional lap dances in the past so I am scared I have a lot to live up to.....
2006-09-11 02:56:30 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Put him in a chair, then stand over him and gyrate your hips, bend over stick your breasts in his face, turn around and bend over in his face, rub your *** on his lap, lean over him and purr in his ear, etc. That oughta get his juices flowing HAHA!
2006-09-11 03:00:15 · answer #1 · answered by bad_dog76 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A lap dance is a blatant sexual performance. You get as bare as you dare and you dance as suggestively as you can right in his face, ending by pressing your behind right up into his crotch and grinding his crotch with your behind. The professional girls usually remove everything but a very tiny thong, and allow him to put his hands just anywhere it pleases him - and quite a few of those girls do away with the thong, too. So you need to decide just how bold you want to be in public - or maybe your relationship is such that you'd be better off doing that for him in a *very* private place?
2006-09-11 03:04:27 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start out by putting him in a chair, no touching you at first . Strip him to underware. You put on a pr of thongs and dance in front of him at first just letting him watch. Back up against him and grind your butt into his croutch. Turn around and rub your boobs in to his face. Basically just simulate having sex but dont let him touch. Yoy may both want to lose the clothes as time goes on. Hope you both enjoy
2006-09-11 03:02:14 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you doing this because you genuinely want to please your man or you doing it because you feel in competition with his past lovers?
If the later is true then don't do it at all, find someone who is happy with you, what you do and how you look as you are and wouldn't want to change anything about you to suit themselves. The question just came across as though you felt underpressure to do it? the best you can be is natural and true to yourself, do that and everything else will click into place.
If you genuinely want to do it then any of the 'Secrets' night clubs chain will generally let girls in to afternoon rehearsals. One of my best friends is married to the sister of the Secrets chain owner, so I know this is possible.
Regards, Peter
2006-09-11 03:21:41 · answer #4 · answered by statusquo44 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get Carmen Electra's Stripperobics collection. They are fun and a great workout! And you learn alot, very fast with these vidoes. The routines are easy to remember.
2006-09-11 03:03:41 · answer #5 · answered by Snow 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-09-30 14:02:53 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why does dances equal lap dance for boyfriends??? Dances are suppose to be fun and dance, nothing sexually done.
2006-09-11 03:12:12 · answer #7 · answered by Symbolic User 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you stand over his lap like you are going to sit on it and get as close as you can to his body and then you just start dancing doing the body roll and thing like that dnt do facial expressions just get into the music and let your body move.
2006-09-11 04:50:02 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok first off - it will prob help to have a glass of wine - or three before you do it!! Basically you just move provocatively and sexily in front of him (make sure you are in mind blowing sexy underwear) slowly strip for him whilst occassionaly stepping nearer to him and teasing him. and remember - ALWAYS keep your heels on!!! Pick some music you feel comfortable with - that has a good rhythm - not too slow not too fast. and remember ENJOY IT!!!!! coz your boyfriend sure as hell will!!
2006-09-11 03:01:59 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
rent dirty daning, if that dosent work ask the clark at the video store whats the name of the movie where camerin diaz plays a striper! that should help you!!!!!!!
good luck!!!!
ps.. if that dosent work either ,sh*t put your a*s on his lap and shake your money maker, or you can just go to a real strip club and see how its realy done. once agin ...... good luck
2006-09-11 03:09:33 · answer #10 · answered by ladyindia2005 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋