After I broke up with my ex. I went out on a few dates with 2 different women. Not during the same time. So when we "hooked up" it was good. but each time they where like I love you, your the one for me. It was on the 3rd date with each one. It's not that I can't comit. I just thought it was way fast. what do you think?
2006-09-11 02:44:36 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you didnt put your age but as women get older they get insacure about relationships and so if you go all the way they like to think that you are wanting a serious relationship. my advice to you would be to let the woman know befor you do anything that it is not serious but for fun and that it might get serious down the road of your relationship. but if you are honist about it then they will be more understanding.
2006-09-11 02:50:51 · answer #1 · answered by kathy froggylady40 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
There looks some thing rather incorrect right here. it style of feels there may be a serious underlying subject right here.There ought to be many rationalization why she isn't coopearting, possibly she is under pressure with on a daily basis life, possibly she basically enjoys being on my own, in line with danger she has physique image themes.however the certainty is you will no longer comprehend except she talks to you, have you ever pronounced marriage scientific care/counselling? it rather is unfair which you could make all the attempt in this marriage, your spouse should not be so egocentric and it won't paintings except you're the two keen for it to paintings. i think of you should take a seat down back and enable it choose for a at an identical time as, in line with danger playing her at her very own game-that gets a reaction?possibly your staying power places her off.Love and marriage is approximately compromise and intercourse builds a more suitable bond between you. you should think of roughly what you rather want, with the aid of fact if this is going on already a twelve months in, possibilities are high it rather is going to keep on.It isnt a terrible element which you're inquiring for, she ought to be extra know-how. As on your final question- i dont think of that it regularly occurring yet each female is distinctive, it doesnt propose she is a lesbian-yet im no longer asserting it isnt a danger.She ought to be at a loss for words approximately her sexuality which may be yet another reason she is taking flight from intercourse with you. yet my important factor is that no longer something will strengthen except she needs it to, there is only lots you're able to do. there's a e book with the help of John gray that could help you- adult men are from Mars, women are from Venus interior the mattress room (some thing like that) with the help of how whats the factor in speaking to different people(aside from a counsellor) while she doesnt prefer to take heed to
2016-11-07 02:29:00 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its the genetic make up of a woman to fall in love with someone they have been intimate with. Women associate sex with love. Men dont. Maybe make it clear to them from the beginning that it is just a physical thing. But she will probably say fine but think Oh he'll fall in love with me afterwards anyway, so its a no win situation.
2006-09-11 02:50:12 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women always put emotion behind sex. Maybe the great sex made the two think that there was deeper connection.
2006-09-11 02:51:23 · answer #4 · answered by Dre 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know about anyone else, but thats why I don't sleep with anyone right away...I get too attached, although I wouldn't put my heart on the line by telling you I love you, so I wait till I know where your at and I know it's ok to get attached. Most women can't sleep with you without feeling something.
2006-09-11 02:47:44 · answer #5 · answered by sasha 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a hilarious question that guys ask way too often.
"Way too fast"? Dude, you had SEX with them didn't you? How is it way too fast to love and care for someone, but it's not way too fast to engage in a high level of intimacy with them?
I swear the d i c k is where most of your brains and unfortunately your feelings are located. I guess women are to blame, right? How could they possibly believe that because a person desires to be intimate with you, they might possibly care for you? Dumb right? I hope you're picking up on the sarcasm, I'm laying it on pretty thick.
2006-09-11 03:03:01 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
Probably because many women were raised to believe, or just inherently believe, that you don't have sex unless you're in love so when physical attraction over-rides that value system, (sex=love), they subconsciously rationalize it by falling in love "after the fact"
2006-09-11 02:53:54 · answer #7 · answered by worldhq101 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe they never had great sex before .... so what you are good in bed ....dont brag about it..
i to have also been one to CONFUSE great sex with love but i guess that would have been because the guy said he loved me back ...and then later after a few months said to me that i needed to just learn to have great sex without all the love involved....what an A*s....i also agree i cannot have great sex without great emotions involved....that is what makes the sex good...........................in the first place...and yeah who sleeps with them right away anyways...that would just make them a sleeze..
2006-09-11 02:49:20 · answer #8 · answered by fantasia91273 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
women are emotional creatures , and we often combine feelings with great sex............ but if u talk at first and tell them u are not looking for a relationship , some women can turn that emotion off, and be physical just like a man can
2006-09-11 02:48:28 · answer #9 · answered by NorthFLgurl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
most women think with their heart rather with their...lower body ;) unlike man, that is. try read more about how a woman perceives a relationship.
2006-09-11 02:48:22 · answer #10 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋