Ok- I met someone and in the 3 weeks that we have been talking, we have been talking every day. He calls me on my way to work every single morning, and usually on his way home at night. I met up with him this weekend, and we spent the night together (no sex). Since then I haven't heard a word from him. Waht could the explanation for this be? Did I do something wrong?
2006-09-11 02:17:36 · 28 answers · asked by misscongeniality711 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I don't really think it was the no sex thing. Yea we kissed. He tried to make a move but I turned him down. It really wasn't a big deal. I don't feel like he's the type of person who would do that. That's just a gut feeling...
This is why I hate dating. I am not going to call him.
2006-09-11 02:42:28 · update #1
He probably wanted sex, but you did the right thing. Since he has not called you, you know he does not have any respect for you. It is an encouragment to see that you chose no sex. This guy isn't right for you. Don't worry about it. Also, don't take advie from most of the jerks on here. YOU DID THE RIGHT THING!!! CONGRATUALTIONS!!!
2006-09-11 02:23:25 · answer #1 · answered by Dead 2 Self 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
could just be that he's chasing you for just that one thing. or it could be that he is busy. If its the prior, and he is just chasing a casual bang, then he wont contact you much, then he'll go for another try at "spending the night together". If he's just busy, then he will more than likely ring, apologise, and take you out on a date, no pressure. OMG something just came back to me a memory which leads me to say: maybe he spent the next several; nights with someone else and couldnt call you. either way if there is no apology for dropping you like a hot rock its probably because he is self centred. take care, look inside yourself and remember who you are... then look into his eyes, look into his soul... what do you see?
2006-09-11 02:26:19 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You did nothing wrong, but you probably found out some things about his character just in time before you invested more in what you had with him.
Call and check on him... don't state that you're worried or the fact that he hasn't called as he had in the past; just act like it's no big deal with your call.
If he blows you off, then you have your answer... there's another woman on his radar screen. Or perhaps he has a valid reason for not calling as much and it's up to you if you believe it or not.
2006-09-11 02:25:33 · answer #3 · answered by E. Gads 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did he try to make a move and you turned him down? Have you kissed him?
Could be he's gotten busy at work, or had some family things he needed to take care of. You can always call him, and see what's up.
2006-09-11 02:22:46 · answer #4 · answered by The First 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"No sex" could be the explanation... Or, the dynamics of the face-to-face meeting were different from the expectations built up before you met. Perhaps, he didn't experience the same attraction to you in person as he did when you were just talking (sometimes people create this "imaginary" person in their minds to whom they're attraced to, but often it doesn't have much to do with the real person they're conversing with.)
2006-09-11 02:22:32 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can't say if you did something wrong, as I don't actually know.
Unless he is some slut who would have wanted to have sex with you, you didn't do anything wrong on that front!
Try texting him, which is a little easier and less abrupt than calling, especially if he thinks it is awkward or something. Good luck.
2006-09-11 02:20:12 · answer #6 · answered by Chris 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You did nothing wrong... the guy was probably a shallow prick and all he wanted was some nookie... That is probably why he hasn't called you since the night together. You can find a better gentleman for yourself.
2006-09-11 02:20:59 · answer #7 · answered by theodore.story 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
probably cause he was expecting 2 get something out of u that night but that's no reason 4 him not 2 call u, don't call him, wait 4 him 2 call u, than ask him y he hasn't called, goodluck.
2006-09-11 02:23:51 · answer #8 · answered by D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry but maybe he was not attracted to you i remember when i was young i was talking to this girl and we was dating on the phone never meet at that time but when we did meet she had more face hair then i did so i stoped talking to her i was not rudd i just did not answer the phone when she called
2006-09-11 02:29:19 · answer #9 · answered by kingkong9274 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. Am sure he likes you but just like all men, they want some breathing time on their own. Just leave him alone and don't appear like it's a big deal - just be cool! You'll appear too clingy if you start acting like "What did I do? Don't you like me?" Or start calling and calling him! BIG MISTAKE!
2006-09-11 02:36:05 · answer #10 · answered by Kellybelle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋