This girl i hav been txten for a while is always txten me at 1,2 and 3 in the mornin and tellin me she is drunk. I talk to her alot and recently she has been doin this thing where she is sayin that she is not hot or that she is odd, generaly puttin herself down.
i always tell her she is beautiful and a she say she doesnt belive me what is she doin is it normal?
2006-09-11 02:14:57 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She gets a depressed when she's tipsy. It is common, but as soon as she'll switch to proper drinks instead of ales and breezers, she'll be all different.
2006-09-11 02:17:31 · answer #1 · answered by McAtterie 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's not too uncommon for young ladies to get drunk, feel horribly insecure, text guys late at night for reassurance.... She thinks hiding behind drunkness allows her to say things she would normally be too afraid to say. She'll grow out of it one day but in the meantime, tell her that if she feels this way she should open up to you when she is sober and you will listen to her and support her in any way you can.
Unless you don't want to, in which case put her out of her misery and break off contact (but expect lots more drunken text immediately following!)
2006-09-11 09:25:11 · answer #2 · answered by - 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it's normal but it signifies a deep insecurity in the girl. Explore the possibilities and if she's wrought with insecurities let her go, avoid the headache! Maybe, though, she was just a bit drunk and it doesn't mean anything, either way explore the possibilities!
2006-09-11 09:18:34 · answer #3 · answered by T M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Usually they are intrested, only its like attebtion seeking but not in a harsh way. Its a womans way of trying to get ur affection, see what your all about. As for being drunk all the time, u might wanna show her u care by asking her to drink less
2006-09-11 09:20:49 · answer #4 · answered by ADAM M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well I wouldnt consider it normally no - sounds like shes looking for reassurance and compliments - Ill bet shes not even drunk half the time. All ladies love a compliment - obviously we prefer them when the come unprompted from a guy, but maybe she has very low self esteem and needs to try and push you into giving them.
2006-09-11 09:25:26 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find out whether she is really drunk when she texts you or she is just pulling your leg.If its true then she needs help.She needs a caring friend like you.
2006-09-11 09:47:03 · answer #6 · answered by Bob Mukonka 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like shes a flat out drunk....at least she doesn't drunk call ya.
2006-09-11 09:23:12 · answer #7 · answered by buldawg 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, she's fishing for compliments from you. She wants to feel better about herself by being told by you what she wants to hear.
I assume you've actually seen her, right?
2006-09-11 09:20:11 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to get close to her before she hurts herself
2006-09-11 09:21:08 · answer #9 · answered by wayne vicious 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is fishing for compliments.
2006-09-11 09:17:42 · answer #10 · answered by Sherona B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋