Hi ppl,
Just find it's hard to mend a broken heart.Although there are new guys around whom I admire.But,my heart has been broken by someone before,and I find it hard to open up for new opportunities.What sld I do ? Does anyone hv any suggestion on how to face the light again after facing the darkness for so long ?
Coz I know I can't go on like this forever....need some good advice.
2006-09-11 02:00:38 · 10 answers · asked by Cinderella in blue jeans 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The only thing that is gonna make you feel better hun is time! It might take a long time but it will get better and you will get over it! I know this because i was in the same situation! Don't date anyone yet if your still hurting over your ex, it wont work or last! You'll just compare and its not the same, although your probably craving love you will just end up hurting others! Take some time out to be by your self and find your self again as a single person! You will get there, I know it hurts like hell, but I promise you you will get over it! And when your ready you will meet someone when you least expect it, although you may not completely forget about the person who hurt you right away, thoughts of him will slowly fade and one day you will look back and probably wonder what you saw in him anyway! You have to trust me on this one girl, I wish someone gave me this advice when I was in your position, its true!
And here's something that im sure will make you smile and lift your spirits! It did me!
Women are like apples on trees. The best ones are at the top of the tree.
Most men don't want to reach for the good ones because they are afraid of falling and getting hurt.
Instead, they sometimes take the apples from the ground that aren't as good, but easy.
The apples at the top think something is wrong with them, when in reality, they're amazing.
They just have to wait for the right man to come along, the one who is brave enough to climb all the way to the top of the tree.
Share this with women who are good apples, even those who have already been picked!
I hope my advise helps you! If you ever feel like some one to talk you can email me or IM chat! hayleyfabuloustotty@yahoo.co.uk.
Take care! xxx
2006-09-11 02:56:19 · answer #1 · answered by Totty D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately, mending a broken heart takes time. The last thing you need is to step into another relationship while you still love someone else. It is not fair to the other guy and it is not fair to yourself. I would try getting active and involved in sports, volunteer work and going out with friends. Make yourself stop thinking about this guy throughout the day. Make a deal with yourself to only allow 5 minutes a day to think about the situation. And during this 5 minutes, think of all the negatives about the relationship and how you will be better off when you get over this guy.
2006-09-11 02:14:08 · answer #2 · answered by RKC 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know what you mean...I just had my heart broken by someone I really loved and cared about and I thought she felt the same about me....There's a pleasure and a pain about love...having it is a pleasure...losing it is painful....it leaves you confused wondering was it me or was the other person to blame for whatever reason! I never expected what happened to me to happen...people always say "move on" and that's great advice but you have to heal first, get your confidence back and take a chance again and that takes time when your heart's been broken. There's a lot of anger, denial and bitterness when you've had your heart broken and you have to overcome those emotions first and then move on! Best of luck to you!!
2006-09-11 02:32:21 · answer #3 · answered by Damned fan 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take relationships slow and allow the trust to come as it goes. Also in time you will find the right person for you ...
Hugs from a Loving Mom to a Brilliant, as well as beautiful 8 year old Jared and Our Angel, Zachary (taken to soon but who will always remain in our heart) ~ Mel
2006-09-11 02:10:22 · answer #4 · answered by jaredsmommy2004 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be patient and take things slow. Its better to fall in love than expecting to be in love. You really need your space right now. Be strong. The fact that u have a broken heart shows that it meant something to u and you were sincere. You have a lot to offer. Dont worry.
2006-09-11 02:04:40 · answer #5 · answered by Taurus 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well your not the only person to have there heart broken... you should be confident in your self and just go out and start looking for that guy that has every thing you want in a man now i aint saying that you should go out and start looking for mr. right na what im saying is you gotta go out and start small and then work your way up and as time goes by you'll start becoming more confident and maybe you'll be the person who will start breaking hearts
2006-09-11 02:06:50 · answer #6 · answered by lilsienna1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes we all face something from someone in our life which really hurts us, and we think y it happened only to me.. and we run from the situation but cant, but all know life moves on there can be one bad move but dont think all our moves will be bad..take your time come out of it forget about everything give urself a chance coz u deserve it.. dont look bad go ahead and this time be safe that no body can break u up... take care and godbless.
2006-09-11 02:11:08 · answer #7 · answered by sara 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the only way i will sum this up is this: You have been surely precise once you theory this: " all it's going to be is a booty call and that i wasted all this time...". additionally, he'd say "im in love" to ANY lady who likes vehicles/video games/ beer. you think of you are the only lady that likes those issues? you think of you are the only lady he's chatting with?? Babe, you don't comprehend men in any respect, in case you responded sure/ sure.... sturdy success! P.s. you wont like the above yet its the actuality. And it relatively is spelled "soldier" no longer "solider" <--this suggests extra good, or perhaps then its no longer appropriate grammar.
2016-09-30 14:00:52 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait a little for your mind to be clean and don't go too far with anyone..Then you will see if you want to mekw a new try!
2006-09-11 02:07:40 · answer #9 · answered by Elli 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take it slow, know that you deserve a good relationship, and just have fun.
2006-09-11 02:02:56 · answer #10 · answered by corkscrewpirate 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋