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I proposed someone to marry and she told me that she had already got someone, she is even praying for him as her future husband. But now though she has, she seems like intrested in me and am intrested in her though she is not open. Give advise please

2006-09-11 01:47:19 · 19 answers · asked by Gilberto 1 in Family & Relationships Weddings

19 answers

Gilberto,

Ask and pray to God to give you a sign about her, to see
if she is the right one.

God will answer you, but if you feel negative or questionable emotions about her, I sense God is present with you, and moving on with your life would be the best.

St. Raphael the Archangel is the patron saint for Couples and Happy meetings. Peace.

2006-09-11 07:10:56 · answer #1 · answered by Born Valentine's Day 5 · 0 0

I'm sorry to hear that this has happen to you.If she has said this to you then she isn't the right girl for you .thank you lucky stars that this is a far as it went and not all the way to the alter only to be embarrassed and left standing, or even worse marry you and find out that she doesn't feel for you the same way that you feel for her ,and she became a cheater and then you wouldn't be able to trust anyone for a long time. You could also give her some time in the case that she was just in total shock from you asking..
Good Luck to you and remember there is that special someone out there, even if you think at this time you will find her .

2006-09-11 01:59:40 · answer #2 · answered by 2_4 you 1 · 0 0

think about it...if you love her and she does but she not open about it and praying for other guy that she dream to be married and think about what will happen if you both got married and then that guy finally found her and want her and she would dump you for this guy... reason she just used you not really used you but rebound.. until he comes back.. soon or later things didn't work out and she will beg you back and you have to tell her no.

So are you willing to go though like this? for me No.... I rather find a woman who don't have no one but truly in love with me alot.. that even better.

2006-09-11 07:37:49 · answer #3 · answered by greenbaypackers1920 6 · 0 0

So you proposed to someone who you have not even dated who already has another guy in mind.

My advice is to find someone first, date them for a while and go from there because that is how it works.

Good Luck

2006-09-11 06:23:45 · answer #4 · answered by Jason 4 · 0 0

Sounds like you don't know this woman, so why on earth have you proposed to her. She's not IN LOVE with you. Move on. And next time you propose to someone, take the time to get to know her first.

2006-09-11 01:58:09 · answer #5 · answered by crazymom 4 · 0 0

Engagement is the quantity of time used to plot a marriage. you at the instant are not legally sufficiently old to get married so what's the area of having engaged? no person will take the engagement heavily once you're this youthful and in basic terms been mutually for 8 months. what's the hurry? in case you intend to spend something of your lives mutually then why no longer decelerate and revel interior the adventure of being in love?

2016-12-12 06:27:54 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0 0

Tell her good luck and move on, she does not see you as husband material ... if she would rather hang onto a "possible" proposal over actual one, she is tryiing to say NO WAY without hurting your feelings

2006-09-11 02:19:54 · answer #7 · answered by casurfwatcher 6 · 0 0

I think if you truly love her then pray with her whom she loves so much.If it is not possible then just stay away becoz then both of you might misunderstand your dependence on each other for love which is not good.She can depend on you and think this is love and you might think the same way. So let things happen. She will come to you if she has to.

2006-09-11 01:54:04 · answer #8 · answered by Mooch 2 · 0 0

Just back away slowly... if she has another man in the picture, she may resort to determining which one (either you or the other guy) could support her better. If she was really interested in you, she would let the other guy go.

2006-09-11 01:52:13 · answer #9 · answered by E. Gads 4 · 0 0

That is 1 wierd question but here goes...Leave she doesnt obviously want to commit to you.What a hurtful thing to say she has someone else I no what I`d do with her.

2006-09-11 02:03:30 · answer #10 · answered by cowgirl angie 3 · 0 0

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